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Daughter-in-Law Has Distanced Herself After Baby
Dear Annie: I am heartbroken over my daughter-in-law's sudden and painful change in behavior since the birth of our grandson a year ago.
Before the baby was born, we had a warm relationship. For four years, she was sweet, kind and very much a part of our large extended family. She joined family trips, holidays and even our "happy birthday" ...Read more
Asking Eric: Married friend might be flirting
Dear Eric: I am a long-retired senior citizen. I manage my days by finding things to do. In the evenings, I generally go out to a handful of local establishments. Being single I sit at the bar to dine and have a cocktail. I am friendly and chat with just about anyone
At one establishment, I run into a lady from time to time. She is married but ...Read more
Cornered by My Sister's Constant Invitations
Dear Annie: I moved to northern Florida over a year ago to help care for my parents. My sister has lived in southern Florida for many years, and for as long as I can remember, nearly every conversation with her includes the same question: "When are you coming down?"
Before I moved here, she asked it constantly. Once, she and her husband ...Read more
Asking Eric: News podcasts cause marital discord
Dear Eric: My wife and I, both seniors, have similar views, but get our news from different sources. I read online and listen to podcasts while doing mindless tasks, at the gym and on walks when she does not join me.
She is totally devoted to cable TV and prefers me to not interrupt; I can do better and am trying.
She feels my podcast ...Read more
Grandma's Jewelry May Be Lost, But Her Love Isn't
Dear Annie: My 15-year-old daughter was given a piece of sentimental jewelry on the day of her grandmother's funeral. It had belonged to her grandmother, and the gesture was meant to be a beautiful way for my daughter to carry a piece of her with her.
At the time, my daughter seemed touched. She wore it a few times, and I remember feeling ...Read more
Millennial Life: The High Holiday of The Beautiful Game
I had forgotten about the time change and the hour that I thought we'd have before the game vaporized. We checked in and raced to the Mexican restaurant, where the likelihood of the game playing would be high.
My husband dropped me off to verify if TVs were playing the game. There were and there were others with green jerseys like what all of ...Read more
Asking Eric: Daughter accepted to college, but she may not be ready
Dear Eric: My daughter recently committed to a university across the country, and she is supposed to start in the coming fall. She is only 17 and we think that she should be older before starting this new chapter of her life.
This among other reasons is why my husband and I have been increasingly hesitant to send her off to college this year ...Read more
Neighbor Is Taking Attendance at Church
Dear Annie: My wife and I are members of a local church, though I will admit we are not exactly front-pew regulars. We go about once a month, sometimes more during holidays or when life is calmer. Our faith matters to us, but we practice it quietly and privately.
One of our neighbors and her husband also belong to the same church. They are ...Read more
Asking Eric: Sister posts paternity secret on Facebook
Dear Eric: Last year my sister posted on Facebook that I was the result of an affair my mother had many years ago. It was with her first husband which ended in an annulment in 1941.The affair was in 1957.
Throughout my life I did feel that way. My father, mother and three siblings had blond hair. I had brown hair, now gray. My paternal ...Read more
Dear Annie: Embracing Carpe Diem
Dear Annie: I have been with "Garrett" for over four years now. I have a son who is 9, and we share a daughter, 3. I was a single mom for four years before I met Garrett, so I did everything on my own.
Garrett is always willing to make my lunch for work, clean after I get home from work, do laundry, etc. so I can relax. My problem is I tend to ...Read more
Asking Eric: After 20 years, breakup still hurts
Dear Eric: I am having a hard time getting over an old fiancé from 2004 and the way this person went from "I can't live without you" for six years to turning on me viscously.
We never cursed at one another until one night in October. I was so crushed. I am with a wonderful man now. But I just cannot figure this out.
I can't and do not want to...Read more
Dear Annie: Flustered by Funeral Flowers
Dear Annie: I've been friends with "Jessie" for several years, but lately, I've been feeling like the friendship is one-sided. I'm always the one reaching out, making plans and putting in the effort. Jessie has been responding to my texts with one-word answers, if at all.
I value our friendship a lot, but I'm starting to question whether she ...Read more
Asking Eric: Busy professional avoids socializing
Dear Eric: I'm mid-50s and I have three jobs (two part time as a college professor). I also have three grown children, a husband, my parents and many friends. I constantly get requests from co-workers and other friends for happy hours, dinners, brunches, workshops, seminars and other events.
As it is, I have a brutal work schedule of about 60 ...Read more
Dear Annie: Career Crises and Workplace Anxieties
Dear Annie: I'm feeling torn between pursuing my dream and maintaining my financial stability. I have a job as an accountant making six figures, but it's boring work -- so boring that I dread getting out of bed every morning. The days go by slowly, and I find myself living for the weekend.
On the other hand, I've had a passion for photography ...Read more
Ask Anna: 2 of my friends offered to make out with me. Is that normal?
Dear Anna,
This feels like a ridiculous question, but here goes. I’m a 22-year-old trans woman, early in my transition, who’s only out to a small circle of close friends. Most of my friends are women, and they’ve been incredibly supportive as I’ve started figuring myself out.
Recently, two different friends — separately, not together...Read more
Single File: Love and Addiction
Sigmund Freud wrote: "From being in love to hypnosis is evidently only a short step. The respects in which the two agree are obvious. There is the same humble subjection, the same compliance, the same absence of criticism, towards the hypnotist just as towards the loved object. There is the same absorption of one's own initiative. ... The ...Read more
Ask Dating Coach Erika: We've had two fights that almost broke us. Is this normal?
Fights, disagreements, squabbles — whatever you want to call them, they are part of any relationship (romantic or otherwise). And, I’d venture to say, they are part of any healthy relationship. Disagreements can’t (and shouldn’t) be avoided, but is there a way to disagree productively?
Today, we have two questions regarding ...Read more
Asking Eric: Son-in-law didn’t deliver Mother’s Day card
Dear Eric: I had a Mother’s Day card for my daughter, but needed her sons, ages 10 and 7 to sign it. Since I did not see them in time for Mother’s Day, I gave it to my daughter to give to them.
When I inquired about the card, my daughter’s husband said he had decided not to give the card because he had already done cards for her. He said,...Read more
Dear Annie: Drama at the Gym
Dear Annie: I love the gym. It has really helped me gain confidence and strength. I have been going to the same gym in our small town for roughly 10 years. I know all the people there and enjoy my time there -- until lately.
There is a woman who just started going to the gym who is toxic. She really hurt a dear friend of mine, whose child was ...Read more
Asking Eric: Husband refuses to downsize
Dear Eric: My husband and I are retired. We have been married for 29 years. In the last several years he has refused to get rid of anything.
We downsized five years ago. During the move I was able to get him to donate some coats he could not wear but that was about all.
He was to go through the basement, work bench and garage. Unfortunately, ...Read more
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