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Hope for Those With Eating Disorders

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: I want your readers who think they may have an eating disorder to know that they are not alone and that their condition is treatable. I am living proof!

Throughout my childhood, I struggled with my weight and my relationship with food. When I reached the end of high school, I committed to being "healthy." I lost more than 50 ...Read more

Adult Daughter a Financial Burden

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: I'm a 69-year-old retired widow living on a fixed income. I'm paying monthly on a loan to get some repairs done to my home. My problem is my daughter and son-in-law. They both have health problems, my daughter especially. He gets Social Security disability and Medicare. My daughter has applied for Social Security disability and has...Read more

Don't Talk to Mama With That Mouth

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: I've been married for 10 years. My husband and I live about 15 minutes from his mother. Things have never been great between my mother-in-law and me, but we've always tried to overlook our differences.

When my husband and I were first married and didn't have kids, we spent a lot of our free time with his mom, but now that we have ...Read more

Drama Over Solutions

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: My middle child graduated from college last year and has been driving me crazy ever since. The transition into the adult world can be a difficult, confusing time for most college grads; thinking back, I obsessed over picking the "right" job, the "right" career, etc. So, that I can empathize with. But every time she presents a ...Read more

Mom's House of Horrors

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: I am a stay-at-home mom with three children under the age of 6. They currently go to their grandmother's (my mother's) day care one day a week to give me a chance to run errands and do extra housework. Lately, I have noticed signs of negligence. Some are minor, such as dirty faces and rear ends not properly wiped. Some are more ...Read more

That Ain't Good English

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: I have been attending a local church for about a year, and although I am very shy, I have come to care a great deal about some of the people, especially my pastors. I have noticed that on the church's official website, there are quite a few typos and oddly structured sentences. I would love to offer a couple of hours of my time to ...Read more

Wrestling With Coming Forward

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: I've been feeling very inspired lately. As a firm believer in gender equality, I am so happy to see how the #MeToo movement has given so many women the relief of telling their stories and getting a weight off their shoulders. However, this also has inspired a feeling of panic within me. I, too, am a victim; but my perpetrator was ...Read more

The Kids Aren't All Right

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: I have been married to my husband for 11 years. He has three grown children, all gainfully employed, who live in distant cities. We live in the large house his children grew up in. Two of the children are married with young kids.

The problem is that at least twice a year, his kids decide to coordinate a visit home, all coming into...Read more

Retirement Comes in With a Bang

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: I am a 67-year-old man who has extreme seller's remorse and have slipped into depression from selling my business two years ago. The reason I am writing is to caution the 10,000 baby boomers a day who are turning 65. After retiring, I was caught completely off guard by the fact that my entire identity was my business. I have also ...Read more

The Leftovers Thief

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: I have had this issue with a certain family member, and I am hoping you can advise me on what to do. When the family of one of our sons visits and eats dinner at our house, his wife cleans up afterward, which is appreciated, but the problem is that she takes 90 percent of the food for herself and her grown children without asking. ...Read more

Husband Addicted to Game

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Dear Annie: Ever since "Pokemon Go" came out, my husband has been spending a lot of time playing it. Sometimes he's out for eight to 10 hours per day, including during the night, walking around and attempting to find Pokemon for the game.

"M" is in his early 50s and has been a stay-at-home dad for the past seven years. Our lifestyle is frugal...Read more

Mom Is a Food Hoarder

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: My mother is 79 years old. She was born during the Depression, and I know that when she was younger, she didn't get enough to eat. The problem now is that she still hoards food. She admits that she has a problem, but she can't seem to stop buying food for the freezer. She has a huge chest freezer and two smaller freezers that are ...Read more

Thirty's a Crowd

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: Though the holidays are behind us, I'm left with some lingering resentment. My problem is that we host too many guests. I married into a family of seven. This family has since grown to 30 people, even with the deaths of the mother and father. My wife and I took on the hosting of the annual Christmas get-together for the family, but...Read more

Not Over Him Yet

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: About a year and a half ago, the absolute love of my life and I broke up. I was going through some hard times and suffered from major depression and wasn't taking any medication for it. I accused him of cheating, not loving me, etc., to the point where he'd had enough. I don't blame him, really. We still talked afterward, and I ...Read more

No News Is Good News

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: I'm suffering from what I call vigilance fatigue. The state of our government's affairs may never have been worse, and I'm trying to stay on top of it all, but it's exhausting.

I do want to stay informed, but I find that every moment I'm not working or spending time with my kids, I'm reading a magazine or an online news story or ...Read more

Taking Time to Appreciate Veterans

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: In the past year, the Department of Veterans Affairs has tackled many issues for our veterans, and we are proud to participate in the largest transformation of VA in recent history.

Our volunteers and community partners form a large part of this effort, allowing us to bring programs and services to our veterans that otherwise ...Read more

Cut the Chitchat

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: I recently went to see my doctor about some troublesome symptoms I had been experiencing, and the entire time he was examining me, he kept up a running monologue about the holidays and politics and other assorted topics. I responded as necessary, but mostly I found myself wondering how he could be doing a good job of listening to ...Read more

This Is Our Humble Abode

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: I'm hoping you can settle a little disagreement between my 16-year-old daughter and me. The two of us live together in a modest home, which I am proud of. It is nothing special, but I work hard to keep it neat and organized.

When we have company, I am very welcoming and ask our guests whether they would like to see our home, from ...Read more

Gift Guilt

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: It was a wonderful Christmas season. However, I'm finding myself more guilt-ridden than ever. Here's why:

My wife and I are "gifters." We like to think of all the people in our lives whom we can think of -- near, far, wherever they are -- and try to give them something. Most of the gifts are fairly nice. For people we don't know ...Read more

Neighborhood Noise

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: My neighbors aren't exactly the kind of people you could describe as -- how do I put this? -- quiet. And really, that isn't a problem. I've always loved the fact that my neighborhood is full of life. I actually like hearing the sounds of kids playing outside, a loud backyard barbecue, even television and music.

A new family moved ...Read more


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