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Phobias Related To Childhood Trauma Cause Distress

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DEAR HARRIETTE: I am currently struggling with a phobia related to gunshots and police sirens due to childhood traumas. When I was a child, I experienced instances where my father would bring conflict into our home, and it has left a lasting impact on me. As a result, I have developed an intense fear and anxiety around the sound of gunshots and ...Read more

Husband's Behavior Causes Spouse Pain

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DEAR HARRIETTE: My husband's actions are hurting me, but I am torn because I don't want to have a broken family, so I find myself constantly fighting back. His behavior toward me is causing emotional pain and distress. Despite this, I am hesitant to consider separation or divorce because I worry about the impact it would have on our family and ...Read more

Partner Ready To Move On Despite Boyfriend's Kindness

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DEAR HARRIETTE: I'm facing a dilemma and could really use your advice. I want to break up with my partner, but I feel indebted to him because of his kindness. He has always been incredibly kind and considerate toward me, going out of his way to make me feel loved and appreciated. However, I recently realized that our long-term compatibility is ...Read more

Woman's Outsize Personality Overshadows Friend

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DEAR HARRIETTE: I sometimes feel like I'm a background character in my friend's life. She is outgoing, and I am reserved. It seems that people naturally gravitate toward her energy, leaving me feeling like I'm playing a secondary role or even becoming an invisible character in the scene.

While I value our friendship, I can't help but feel ...Read more

Sister Doesn't Like Brother's Fiancee

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DEAR HARRIETTE: My 32-year-old brother is finally getting married, but I don't like his bride. I know that his life isn't mine, so I should mind my business. However, I care about my brother and don't want to see his life get messed up because of his bride-to-be.

My biggest issue is that she doesn't seem to genuinely love my brother. I notice ...Read more

Planning For Old Age Causes Anxiety

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DEAR HARRIETTE: Lately, I've been plagued by worries about growing old and the possibility of not having anyone to take care of me. The thought of being alone and vulnerable in my old age is causing me a great deal of anxiety. I would appreciate your advice on how to alleviate these concerns. How can I ensure that I have a support system in ...Read more

Working Parent Overwhelmed By Responsibilities

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DEAR HARRIETTE: Juggling work commitments and the responsibilities of caring for a child can be an immense challenge. On one hand, I have professional obligations that require my time, energy and focus. On the other hand, I have the critical role of nurturing and providing for my child, which demands attention and care. Finding a way to ...Read more

In-Laws' Expectations Cause Friction In Home

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DEAR HARRIETTE: I am married and have been living with my in-laws for the past few months. Living with them has brought a unique set of challenges, as it involves merging two different households and navigating different dynamics. One of the main difficulties I have encountered is the clash of expectations and routines. My in-laws have their own...Read more

News Of Parents' Divorce Baffles 27-Year-Old

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DEAR HARRIETTE: I am 27 years old, and my parents recently told me that at 60 years old, they are getting a divorce. I am having a hard time with this because they have been married for 30 years, and when I was growing up, they seemed so in love. I never saw this coming, and it feels like the foundation of my family has crumbled. I find myself ...Read more

Toddler Mom Wants Advice For Raising Good Kids

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DEAR HARRIETTE: I have been feeling uneasy for quite some time now. I am the mother of an almost-4-year-old little girl. Toddlers grow up at the speed of light, as they say. My child is becoming more and more inquisitive these days, and I can't help but worry that in a few short years, she will have to make her own decisions. Despite thinking ...Read more

Young Adult Prepares For Lengthy Study Abroad Opportunity

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DEAR HARRIETTE: At 20 years old, I've been offered a remarkable opportunity for a fully paid academic program abroad in London for three years. The thought of leaving my family in California for such a long time weighs heavily on my mind. How can I emotionally prepare for this separation, handle homesickness and adjust to the new environment ...Read more

A Serious Demeanor Can Be Softened

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DEAR HARRIETTE: It has recently come to my attention that I have a very serious demeanor. My friend brought it up to me that even in casual situations and when I text, I come off very formal and serious. At first, I didn't take her comment seriously because this was just one person's opinion. In the past two weeks, however, there have been four ...Read more

Consumer Questions Ethics Of Buying From Certain Companies

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DEAR HARRIETTE: I am a college student who often relies on fast food and strives to stay current with trends. However, the recent controversies surrounding major companies have made me question my perspective, and I am unsure how to address these concerns. For instance, if I continue to purchase products from Apple because I genuinely enjoy ...Read more

Mother's Comments On Daughter's Weight Strain Relationship

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DEAR HARRIETTE: I am a 30-year-old woman with a mother who continually comments on my weight whenever we interact. This has been a recurring theme since my teenage years, and I find myself struggling with the impact it has on my self-esteem. Despite my efforts to maintain a positive body image and focus on overall well-being, my mother's ...Read more

Friend Blames Woman For Situation Getting Out Of Control

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DEAR HARRIETTE: My friend and I recently got into a fight because she put me in an uncomfortable situation. I am a fairly reserved person, and she is very extroverted, so this can cause us to have conflicting reactions to certain scenarios. She pushed for me to enter this situation, and I went ahead with it because I didn't want to disappoint my...Read more

Procrastinator Wants To Stop The Cycle

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DEAR HARRIETTE: I often find myself procrastinating, and the adrenaline rush of completing tasks under pressure, while effective, leaves me with lingering stress. The cycle is taking a toll on my overall well-being. What strategies or techniques can you recommend to help me break this pattern, overcome procrastination and manage the stress ...Read more

Inheritance Causes Family Frustrations

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DEAR HARRIETTE: Having unexpectedly inherited a significant sum of money, I had intentions of assisting my siblings financially. However, their apparent sense of entitlement and subtle guilt-tripping have made dealing with this situation more challenging than anticipated. I never foresaw money causing disruptions in our family dynamic, and now I...Read more

Recent Master's Grad Ready To Join Job Market

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DEAR HARRIETTE: Freshly graduated with my master's degree and entering the job market, I grapple with uncertainties surrounding negotiating my first salary. As I embark on my career journey, how can I navigate this process successfully, ensuring fair compensation that aligns with my skills and sets the stage for a promising professional future? ...Read more

Male Friends Make Harsh Comments About Woman's Makeup

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DEAR HARRIETTE: I am a 23-year-old woman facing a dilemma within my friend group of four. Our group consists of two girls, including myself, and two guys. The other girl in our group enjoys wearing a significant amount of makeup. I don't mind this, as I believe everyone has the right to express themselves in a way that makes them feel confident ...Read more

Friend Starts Missing Planned Outings

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DEAR HARRIETTE: I am a mother of two daughters, and I've developed a close friendship with another mom in my neighborhood who also has two daughters the same ages as mine. We've been meeting for coffee every Tuesday for the past year. However, over the past month, my friend has unexpectedly canceled our coffee dates with what seem like unusual ...Read more

 

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