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Wife Starts To Resent Man's Constant Demands For Gifts

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I feel uncomfortable receiving gifts, and I find it hard to meet my husband's requests for constant gifts, especially when I feel I already give so much. He constantly asks me to buy him things, some of which are very expensive.

I'm a saver, not a spender, and I try to watch my budget. I already pay all the household bills, even ...Read more

Warring Kids Are Barriers In Couple's Relationship

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I got married to a wonderful guy 14 years ago, but after a year of marriage, our children (his 10-year-old and my 12- and 13-year-olds) couldn't stand one another and caused a lot of problems. I was brokenhearted when he gave me divorce papers. I moved out but continued to date him without our kids around.

Seven years ago, after his ...Read more

Mom Makes Snide Remarks About New Boyfriend's Weight

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I'm a 35-year-old single mom. I've dated a few people over the last seven years, but none of them wanted to commit. Several months ago, I started seeing Joey, a friend of a couple of years. He's sweet, respectful, hardworking, and he helps me whenever I need it.

Joey is on the heavy side, but he's clean and kempt. I introduced him to...Read more

Transgender Playmate Poses A Challenge To Girl's Grandma

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: My 7-year-old granddaughter, Leyla, has a playmate who is a transgender girl. My fear is that she may find out the truth and feel betrayed by her playmate as well as me. Should I explain it to her?

It doesn't matter to me that her friend is transgender because I have always believed that a person's most important trait is having good...Read more

A Pillar Of The Community Is Less Admired At Home

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I have been married for 14 years to a man a lot of people in our town think has no flaws. He helps a lot of people, and he is also a pastor, but he ignores me and takes me for granted, personally, emotionally and sexually. He'd rather watch TV until he falls asleep on the couch.

He looks at pornography online, and I catch him often. ...Read more

Friend Playing Cupid Neglects To Mention Man's Drug Habit

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DEAR ABBY: My hairdresser, former neighbor and friend recommended her unemployed brother to do some minor repairs to my home. He and his sister were trying to push me into a relationship. I am a widow with no children. I have no mortgages, car notes, etc. I'm not wealthy, but I am well set.

My hairdresser recently mentioned that her brother was...Read more

Woman Planning Future May Have Competition For Widower

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DEAR ABBY: A friend's wife died six months ago after a 10-year battle with cancer. He was her faithful caretaker, as she was mostly homebound and bedridden. He told me previously that he has had a female friend for the last four years. He didn't say, but I think she comes with benefits (i.e., they have been intimate). Her office and his ...Read more

Disruptive Cousin Unwelcome During Weeklong Family Visit

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I and our children moved across the country away from our families three years ago. My 9-year-old daughter is extremely close to my mom and sister. Mom wants to take a road trip and spend a week with us. We are all excited, since we haven't seen them in a year. However, she wants to bring along my grandma and my younger...Read more

Newly Sober Mom Regrets Pain She Caused Her Family

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: After smoking marijuana for 20 years, I quit two days ago. My head is starting to clear now, and things are coming into focus. I missed so much, and I feel terrible about it.

How many times did I say no to my kids because I was lazy? How many times have I yelled at them for just asking a question? My 6-year-old would have this ...Read more

Deleted Texts To New Friend Arouse Wife's Suspicions

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DEAR ABBY: My husband is currently at a job that, at first, he complained was a drag. It later became a place he seemed to be OK working at.

A new male employee was hired -- a man who is on his second marriage -- and he became friendly with my husband. Over the last few months I have noticed my husband texting him quite often during his days ...Read more

Early Lesson In Social Graces Helps Overcome Initial Shyness

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DEAR ABBY: When I was a young adult, I had difficulty speaking with strangers. I recall, some years later, attending a party in honor of someone I truly admired. Most of the people there didn't know each other.

Someone had the bright idea for each of us to tell how we knew the honoree. We went around the circle describing our connection to the ...Read more

Sobering Up Changes Dynamics Of Wife's Closest Relationships

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I know I have been blessed with wonderful relationships in my life. I have been married to the same lovely man for 25 years. I am also fortunate to have had the same best friend for 40 years. The problem? They drink.

Because of past behavior, I decided to get sober two years ago. I know I won't be able to drink socially again. I ...Read more

Retail Workers Endure Unfair Abuse From Angry Customers

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DEAR ABBY: I'm considered an essential employee during this pandemic. I am writing on behalf of myself and all retail workers.

First let me say that it is my pleasure to serve on the front line. We are all a little apprehensive, but we feel we are called to help.

Our problem: A lot of shoppers coming into our stores are extremely rude to us. ...Read more

Wife's Antidepressants Cause Opposites To Lose Attraction

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DEAR ABBY: My wife and I have been married for 40 years. We were opposites who were attracted to each other and enjoyed a lot of the same things.

For the last 20 years, my wife has been taking an antidepressant (prescribed by her primary care physician, not a psychiatrist), and she has every side effect of the drug. For years I have tried ...Read more

Surprise Changes In Plans Strain Women's Friendship

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DEAR ABBY: I have a serious issue with my best girlfriend. We make plans together, adult plans, and then at the last minute, her kids drop the young grandkids off for her to babysit, curtailing any plans we have together. The past few times, we have changed our plans to a kids activity.

I have an extremely busy client load, and I'm losing ...Read more

Dealing With Ex-Girlfriends Causes Man Consternation

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DEAR ABBY: What is acceptable after a breakup occurs? Several years ago, I reached out to an ex-girlfriend. We had dated for six months, but she broke up with me to take a job in another state. A year later, I heard through mutual friends that she had recently moved back. I didn't call or text, but I did send an email asking how she was doing ...Read more

Man Who Threatened Suicide Demands His Guns Be Returned

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DEAR ABBY: My wife and I have been friends with another couple for more than 50 years. The four of us have shared lots of good times together.

After recent open heart surgery, the husband became very depressed and talked to his wife about ending it all. She asked me to take the few handguns (all legal) they had in their home to be safe. I didn'...Read more

Attention Paid To Ex-Fiancee Angers Wife For 20 Years

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DEAR ABBY: My wife and I were married 30 years when we ran into an old girlfriend (and ex-fiancee) of mine at a function. I spent a good part of the evening dancing with her and ignoring my wife. My wife says I was indecent with the girlfriend, and it hurt her badly.

It was 20 years ago, but my wife lets me hear about it every day. I can't take...Read more

Recent Divorcee Is Surprised To Find Love Close To Home

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DEAR ABBY: I am recently divorced after a 19-year marriage, and to my great shock, I already find myself in love with another man. I didn't come out of the marriage looking for anyone, nor did I think I'd ever marry again, but this man wants to marry me, and I'm seriously considering it.

We bonded when he contacted me to offer support after he ...Read more

Girlfriend's Online Spending Increases Despite Furlough

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: For the past eight years, my son has been seeing Tanya and, according to him, she spends a lot. I'm concerned about it.

Because of the pandemic, Tanya got furloughed from her employer. She lives in an apartment but has all deliveries sent to OUR home address. Since the pandemic, we are receiving many more packages for her every day ...Read more

 

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