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Girl's Old Friends Turn Away When She Returns To School

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: My daughter has graduated from high school. She had been in a residential treatment program for depression the year and a half prior to returning to this school. Her old friends had promised to be there for her when she returned.

After she was back for three months, her friends stopped inviting her to things and even talked behind ...Read more

Love Is The Best Present To Give Grandson With Down Syndrome

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: We have three grandchildren and are due to make our annual visit. Two of the children are easy to plan for, and we have good relationships with them. The third is a 12-year-old boy with Down syndrome, and we struggle with how to deal with him -- what to do and what to buy him. Any ideas? -- UNSURE IN THE SOUTH

DEAR UNSURE: The most ...Read more

Hard-Working College Student Strives To Be More Organized

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I am a 20-year-old college student. After attending a local community college for two years, I will be starting classes at a four-year school. I make excellent grades, but I struggle with organization. My mother has ADD, and I am certain that I also have it because I display all the symptoms. However, I have never been diagnosed.

My ...Read more

Crush On Married Boss Causes Heartache Every Day For Worker

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I'm 20 years old and have a job in retail. I have been working here for a few years and am in a higher position than most associates.

I'm in a relationship with my high school sweetheart, whom I truly love, but I am also crazy about my boss. She's beautiful, funny, and to be honest, I jumped at my promotion so I could get closer to ...Read more

Talk Of Remarriage Triggers Questions About Burial Plots

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: My brother-in-law Charles has earned the privilege of being buried in a military cemetery. He lost his wife, Claire, to cancer 10 years ago; she is buried in their plot in the military cemetery with a headstone. Their children are all adults now.

Charles has been seriously dating a divorcee, Joyce, and they are talking about marriage...Read more

Wife Of Perfect Husband Cheats Without Remorse

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I have a wonderful husband of 11 years and three children. Carl is attentive, caring and always puts the needs of our family first. You could say he is everyone's dream husband.

Long story short, I cheated on him while I was on vacation. It started as innocent flirtation, but then it went further. When Brad kissed me, I knew it wasn'...Read more

Old Friend Is Slow To Follow Up On Attempt To Reconnect

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I recently reconnected with my best friend from high school. I moved out of state at the age of 30, and we lost touch. Turns out she lives about 70 miles from me. Neither of us married or had children.

Someone told me where she works and I called her. She called back the following weekend, and we talked for a couple of hours. It was ...Read more

Mom Wants To Ban Alcoholic Daughter From Son's Reception

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: Our son and his fiancee are having a destination wedding. My husband and I are hosting a local reception here where we live because we would like our close family and friends to be able to celebrate their wedding.

Our problem is, our 24-year-old daughter is an alcoholic who doesn't see her drinking as a problem. She says she can ...Read more

Twelve-Step Programs Offer Healing For Sexual Addiction

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: After reading the letter from Dumbstruck in Chicago (April 24), who's dating a recently divorced man who was unfaithful to his ex-wife through multiple affairs and one-night stands with prostitutes, I cannot stay silent. That man screams of being a sex addict. He needs the help of a certified sex addiction therapist before he wrecks ...Read more

Romantic Wedding Dreams Dim In Tug-Of-War Over Marriage

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend, Pierre, and I have been a couple for 18 months. We moved in together three months ago.

The trouble is, Pierre is French, and he doesn't believe in marriage. He says it's an outdated institution and a social construct. He also claims that no one in France gets married.

My parents are very religious, and they do not ...Read more

Son Strives To Revive Faded Memories Of Mom Long Gone

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I'm 52. My mom died when I was 11. It wasn't until I reached my mid-20s that I realized I have no memories of her, and few memories of my childhood before I was 11. Dad and I lived a few hours away from family, and after Mom passed, no one spoke about her much. I imagine that was because it was painful. She was only 29.

I never cried...Read more

Late Bloomer Worries He Is Being Labeled A Playboy

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I have never been married. I've been perceived as a playboy for many years now. I don't mean to be, but when I sense the potential for a passionate romantic encounter with flowers, candy, champagne, pot (and an occasional Quaalude), the urge takes over.

I was never considered hot until I turned 50 and decided to get in shape. I had a...Read more

Disapproving Son Tries To Put An End To Mother's Romance

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I am a 64-year-old widow who lost my husband 5 1/2 years ago. I became reacquainted with a former classmate at a high school reunion, and we started dating. He makes me laugh, takes me to dinner and movies, and we have a great time together.

One night, I let him stay over because he was going to go to church with me the next morning....Read more

Long-Distance Love May Be Drifting Even Further Apart

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I am a retired male. My girlfriend is still working. We have been exclusive for three years. We live 300 miles apart, but see each other every two or three weeks for at least three days and, until now, have had a very good relationship.

The problem is, she's saying she wants to socialize with her ex-husband, who lives in her town. ...Read more

Teens Are Kept In The Dark About Dad's Office Affair

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: My husband of 20 years has blindsided me by announcing he's leaving. Come to find out he's in love with a co-worker and thinks they are soul mates. Our close friends and family know about the affair (and are dismayed), but our teenaged kids don't. He told them we simply...Read more

Love Of Fast Food Slows Man's Effort To Lose Weight

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: My husband has become very overweight, which has caused his sex drive -- as well as his health -- to suffer. I worry about him constantly, and I miss the intimacy we used to have. He is aware of how I feel and started trying to eat healthier. He also tries to exercise at least a little bit every day.

The problem is he constantly ...Read more

Sisters Working The Streets Reach Out To Find An Escape

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I'm 19 and my sister is 16. We have been working as prostitutes here in our state and in several nearby ones. We know we need help, but we are afraid to ask for it. Hotlines and trafficking programs have called the police on friends of ours who reached out for help. How can we get help without being forced to testify against my ...Read more

Freshman's Plans For College Include Breast Enhancement

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: My wife's niece, a high school senior, is a beautiful girl with an excellent, well-proportioned figure. Like many girls her age, she's narcissistic and obsessed with her looks, and constantly posting pictures of herself on social media.

She's off to college in a few months, and in order to ensure she's attractive to boys, wants to ...Read more

Divorced Dad Vows To Boycott Any Events That Include His Ex

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: My parents went through a bitter divorce five years ago and have had little to no contact since then. During the process of the divorce, their communication was through my siblings and me, which took a toll on us. However, despite the turmoil of the divorce, we are still close to both of them.

I'm a medical student who will be ...Read more

Wife Endures Verbal Abuse Along With Loveless Marriage

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I have been married to Oscar for more than 30 years. He has been inattentive for more than 25 of those years. Over the last 15 years, I have found erectile dysfunction medications in his vehicles. Oscar claims he knows nothing about them. He lies constantly, even when the evidence is right in front of him. When I ask him if he is ...Read more


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