Life Advice



Disease Prognosis Doesn't Dampen Enjoyment Of Life

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I was recently diagnosed with a progressive disease for which there is no cure. It will affect me physically and mentally as I age. For now, I'm treating the symptoms and trying to minimize their effect on my day-to-day life. But this is certainly not how I expected to live out my "golden years."

I have shared my diagnosis with close...Read more

Girlfriend Of Three Years Learns The Horrible Truth

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: For nearly three years, I have been seeing a man who later asked me to move in with him. He abruptly stopped emailing me four months ago. I waited several weeks and then emailed him, telling him how upset and hurt I was and asking what was going on. I found out -- NOT from him -- that he has been in a relationship with another woman ...Read more

Woman Feels Unloved After Three Decades Of Marriage

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have been married 32 years. I cannot remember the last time he asked me about my day, let alone my life, without a prompt from me. I feel ignored and emotionally neglected. After years of this treatment, I'm no longer willing to tolerate it.

He doesn't engage with me verbally unless he has a question or a complaint. ...Read more

Boy's Parents Refuse To Keep Him Under Control

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I host holiday meals for my out-of-town family. During the last one, my cousin's 5-year-old son ran up and down the upstairs hallway pretty much nonstop the entire time. The floor is ceramic tile, so when he did this, it made a huge racket and shook the house. The pounding frayed my and my husband's nerves, but we didn't say anything ...Read more

Efforts To Connect Are Met By Silence

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I am engaged to an amazing guy. We have been together a little more than two years. During our first year, his family was great to me. They acted as if they liked me. However, things have changed. When my fiance and I are around them, they just wave and have little to say to me, if they say anything at all. They never call or text me;...Read more

Boy's Poor Eating Habits Frustrate His Grandparent

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I have a close relationship with my grandchildren and their parents. My 12-year-old grandson eats nothing except fast food and refuses everything else. His parents allow it and even have food delivered for him. His 8-year-old sister watches closely and is starting to head in the same direction. What they do at home is one thing, but ...Read more

Mother Can't Understand Why Son Has Walked Away

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I've always been close to my children, but now that they are adults, it seems I'm losing my connection with one of them. He married a girl of a different race, and while that doesn't bother me, I have a strong hunch she's the reason he has distanced himself from not only me, but also the rest of the family.

When I recently shared ...Read more

Cash Gift From In-Law Wounds Husband's Pride

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: My sister-in-law on my wife's side stayed a week and a half with us in Florida. I love her very much, and we all had a lovely visit. She has stayed with us before, alone and with my brother-in-law. We welcome them with open arms. Family means a lot to us.

Now to the problem: After she left, I found an envelope with a thank-you card ...Read more

Man May Have Skipped Coursework On Decency

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: Our wonderful daughter has her doctorate. She's a hardworking professor, a job she loves. Her husband, "Phil," has three master's degrees and also his doctorate. In their 20 years of marriage, he has not worked a single job. He would say he is a writer, but if I am generous, he has earned perhaps $250 during their marriage.

Phil is ...Read more

Straight Women Keep Trying To Flip Gay Man

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I'm a 41-year-old gay man. Although I was raised in a conservative, religious family, I'm out of the closet and proud to be living as myself. For much of my adult life, I have attracted mostly women. I have always tried to handle these situations with as much tact as possible. However, some women won't be let down easily. On the ...Read more

Husband's Porn Habit Leaves Wife Feeling Inadequate

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: My husband looks at pornography. I find it disgusting and it turns me off. I feel that if he has to look at it, it means I'm not good enough or sexy enough for him. I don't believe his excuse of "It has nothing to do with you." When I try to tell him how it makes me feel, he becomes indignant and turns the conversation around to ...Read more

Fiance's Demanding Mom Puts A Crimp In Relationship

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I love my fiance, but his mother says, "Over my dead body will he move away from me." She has cancer and we have both been praying that she goes peacefully, but it seems all she wants to do is create as much strife as possible between my fiance and me. I am now ignoring calls and texts from her. Any advice as to how to deal with my ...Read more

Child-Rearing Philosophies Clash In New Relationship

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I have been in a relationship for more than a year. We met at the gym. We have similar interests and are both normally caring and loving to each other. We also have similar senses of humor.

We moved in together too quickly, after only six months. Our attempt at blending our kids and families has hit a lot of hard bumps. He is a very ...Read more

Extramarital Affair Threatens Woman's Mental Health

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I have been involved with a married man for the last five years. He lied to me about his status. He told me that a woman he'd had a 15-year relationship with had left him. I recently learned he has been with her for more than 30 years, and she's the mother of his kids. I have tried to walk away many times, but I always go back. I don'...Read more

Husband's Detour Into Drug Abuse May Be Grounds For Divorce

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have been married for three years, together for eight. We have two kids together. Over the last year, he has changed a lot and has treated me very badly. He's always frustrated with me, accusing me of not caring about him and things of that nature. He puts me down by saying I think I'm a good person but I'm not.

I ...Read more

Reserved Boyfriend May Have To Be Shown How To Love

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I am a mature, divorced woman living with my boyfriend for the past two years. We have a good life in general. We live in a nice home in a great community. My problem is, he isn't capable of showing as much affection as I need. He grew up in a family in which affection was not demonstrated physically or verbally. He claims he is the ...Read more

Wife's Caring Nature Has Her Plate Overflowing

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: My wife, "Connie," is an angel. She takes care of her aging father as well as my sister, who suffers from Alzheimer's. This, in addition to her religious practices, consumes most of her time, energy and emotional resources. She often arrives home in the late afternoon or early evening stressed and completely exhausted.

An elderly and...Read more

Brother Dreads Being Asked To Be Best Man

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: My brother recently called to tell me he had proposed to his girlfriend, and she happily accepted. While I'm glad he is happy, I'm worried about what to do if he asks me to be his best man.

While his girlfriend can be a nice person, they have a one-sided relationship in which she controls a lot of what my brother does. She always ...Read more

Ex-Wife Uses Gifts To Disrupt Visitation

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: My ex has primary custody of our young daughter, "Kayli," and is with her 99% of the time. I have Kayli every other weekend. Her mom has been dropping her off with a bag filled with wrapped presents. These presents are marked by day and hour. Along with the presents, my ex has created multiple alarms in our daughter's phone to let her...Read more

Friend Consistently Flakes Out On Social Engagements

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I'm a widow. I have a friend I'll call "Greta," whom I have known since high school. I was very shy back then. She was more outgoing, but our group of friends was small. Over the years, I have become more outgoing, while Greta seems to be withdrawing socially.

She often tells me she will go to an event only if I go with her, but when...Read more



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