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Teen Who Raised Her Siblings Gets No Respect From Adults

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I'm 18. I started helping to take care of children at the age of 2. I have taken care of them alone since I was 7. Yet every time older people talk about child care, I am rudely excluded from the conversation with comments like, You don't know what we're talking about. You're not a parent. And, You're just a kid. You only think...Read more

Words Fail Woman In Response To Sister-In-Law's Miscarriage

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: My sister-in-law, a mother of four, just had a miscarriage at five months. I have no idea what to say to her or my nieces and nephews. Sorry doesn't seem to suffice. Her 6-year-old was ecstatic about the new baby. The family is crushed. My husband (her brother) was in tears, and I didn't know what to say to him either.

I have never ...Read more

Wife Left At Home With The Kids Longs To Socialize With Adults

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: My husband, Tom, and I have three kids: One is in college, the next is in grade school and the youngest is a baby. I'm a full-time medical student, and he's a professional athlete.

From the outside, it would seem like we have a perfect life. In reality, Tom does his own thing. He attends parties, goes to exciting social events and ...Read more

Man Wrestles With Coming Clean About His Infidelity

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I have been married to my wife for 10 years. We have two beautiful daughters and have always had a great relationship.

Last month I was invited to go on a trip overseas and was hesitant about asking my wife. Once I did, she immediately said yes and told me to have a good time on the trip. She recently chose a career in the military ...Read more

Love Is Lost In Good Marriage As Abuse Increases With Time

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I have been married 14 years and have two children. The first three years of marriage were great. We both cared for and respected each other. As our children grew older and our jobs have become more demanding, my husband has changed about how he views our sex life.

After our third year of marriage, my husband started raping me. No ...Read more

Longtime Addiction Remains A Secret In Woman's Past

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I am a 53-year-old woman who has finally met a kind, decent man after many abusive relationships. I honor our bond and have been open about my past, which has been colorful, to say the least.

I was an addict. It was a long addiction that left me homeless and almost killed me many times. I have kept this part of my life a secret from ...Read more

Disabled Wife Is Overwhelmed By Husband's Messy Habits

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I'm a disabled middle-aged woman, married for 15 years. From the beginning, there was never much passion between my husband and me, but we're friends. I'm now becoming less able to go out and do things, and I will eventually be wheelchair-bound. I want to leave him so he can find someone who is able to do things with him.

I actually ...Read more

Man Uses Security Cameras To Spy On Stay-At-Home Wife

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I'm a stay-at-home mom with three children -- all in school. We recently had security cameras installed around our house. However, my husband has taken to using them to monitor everything I do throughout the day. He will say things like, What took so long to go to the dry cleaner? or, Why did you go outside at 11 a.m.? I feel like a ...Read more

Cancer Diagnosis Prompts Search For Life's Lost Love

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: This is the 37th anniversary of when I met and fell in love with a beautiful young woman in Iowa. We were together less than a year before she decided to pursue her dreams in California. When she left, it broke my heart for years. To this day I still feel the loss.

In the years that followed, our paths crossed a few more times. ...Read more

Son Throws A Tantrum After Wedding Gift Is Cut In Half

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I was working out of town in a position that paid a good salary. When my adult son proposed to his girlfriend, I told him I would try and give him $10,000 for the wedding. Well, things changed. I had to return home for good, and my salary was cut. When I told my son I wouldn't be able to give him $10,000, but could give him only $5,...Read more

Lighthearted Poem Reminds Visitors To Use Guest Towels

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I'm frustrated that guests in my home almost never use the guest towels I've put out for them in the bathroom. Why do they do this?

I remember a little poem in your column that addresses this. I'd like to clip it and put it in there next to the towels. Please print it again! -- GOOD HOSTESS IN CLOVER, S.C.

DEAR HOSTESS: With ...Read more

Woman Irked When Co-Worker Mimics Her Distinctive Style

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I have been trying to get healthy for years and recently lost a lot of weight. Every job I have, I work with grossly obese women. At my present job, one of them keeps coming to work dressed like me. It has happened before and I am sick of it. You have no idea how insulting it is to come to work, ready to do my job and find myself in ...Read more

Parents Blame Teen's Friends For Underage Drinking Episode

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: My 15-year-old daughter, Jenny, went to a sleepover with her two best friends from school last Friday, Penny and Ginger. Penny's parents went out and left the girls alone. They drank some beer. Jenny and Ginger were sober, but Penny also drank some hard liquor and got very drunk. I found out about it the following Monday after Penny ...Read more

Guilt Weighs Down Daughter Of Independent Elderly Mother

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: My 92-year-old mother lives alone, still drives and manages by herself with a feral cat she took in. She's dealing with heart failure, but doing well on her meds. I am 70, an only child, married, retired and live six hours away.

We go to see her four times a year and stay for a week in our RV. We talk on the phone once a week and ...Read more

Teen Daughter Catches Married Dad Texting With Other Women

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: My 14-year-old daughter caught her father, my husband, emailing and texting other women. He has been doing it for months.

He says he went on dating sites because he was unhappy in our marriage and needed attention and to feel desirable. He claims he only emailed and texted these women discussing relationship troubles, no sex talk.

I...Read more

Granddaughter Is Blind To Signs Of Fiance's Abusive Potential

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: My granddaughter is getting married in seven months and I'm worried for her. I see many red flags she's ignoring. Because I'm old, I don't think she will believe me.

You have printed a list of warning signs of an abusive mate. Can you print it again so I can give it to her? -- PERCEPTIVE IN PENNSYLVANIA

DEAR PERCEPTIVE: Gladly, ...Read more

Newlywed Wife Rejects Idea Of Welcoming A Second Wife

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I have been married for seven months, and my husband wants a second wife, something I do not agree with. He says he likes helping people and has decided he wants a former lover to be a part of our marriage. Unfortunately, she is more than willing to sleep with him.

Now he's talking about helping her move even though he knows I'm ...Read more

Memories Of Long-Ago Assault Revived By #Metoo Movement

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: Years ago, my husband and I hosted a St. Patrick's Day party in our apartment for friends. There was a lot of drinking going on. I had to be at work early the next morning, so I went to bed while the party went on. I awoke a short while later to one of the men attempting to rape me. He stopped and attempted an apology by saying, But ...Read more

Man's Work-Life Balance Isn't Working For Overburdened Mom

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I have been married two years, but my husband and I have been together for more than 10. We have a 3-year-old daughter who has needed a few extra doctor appointments and therapy. My husband makes it to none of these extra appointments, some of which are crucial to her future. We both work full-time, but he works six days a week.

I ...Read more

Man's Choice Of Wedding Day Steals Spotlight From Stepmom

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I'm struggling because my stepson has chosen to get married on my birthday. I have been his stepmom for 18 years. It feels like a punch in the chest. My in-law family members are saying things like OMG, how do you feel about that? I can't believe you're going to let that happen. It will no longer be your special day.

My ...Read more


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