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Asking Eric: Sister’s personality drastically changed after divorce

Life Advice / Asking Eric /

Dear Eric: My sister has become someone I don't know.

After her divorce, she became erratic, taking her anger out on everyone around her and making rash decisions we all were forced to resolve for her. Our mother, who always coddled her, insisted on family support for her and put aside any criticism of anything she did.

She'd fly off the ...Read more

Neighbor's Dream Home Is Being Built at My Expense

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: My husband and I have lived in our modest home for many years in a quiet, beautiful neighborhood where the houses have always felt gracious and in scale with one another. We are not extravagant people, and our little house has never been the biggest or fanciest on the block, but it has always been our sanctuary. We worked hard for ...Read more

Millennial Life: On Refusing to Earn Your Way Into Joy

When I first met my husband, he ran through the standard get-to-know-you questions, one of which was, did I like to bike? As he was, and still is, very handsome, the answer was a swift, "Of course!"

I lied.

It's not that I was anti-bike or didn't know how to ride; I just wasn't an avid cyclist, which is what he sounded like at the time. That ...Read more

Asking Eric: Family wants billionaire cousin to share

Life Advice / Asking Eric /

Dear Eric: I am one of six cousins in a family that has been relatively close over the years as we share birthdays, weddings and holidays together quite frequently. There's another cousin who is part of the "other side" of the family that is not only ultra rich (billionaire) but has mostly kept her distance from the rest of us over the years.

...Read more

'Just Tell Me' Is Not Enough

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: I have a teenager who is bright, funny and, in many ways, a good kid. They do well in school, have friends and can be thoughtful when it counts. But when it comes to life at home, it is as if none of it registers.

I feel like I am constantly scanning the house, noticing what needs to be done -- the overflowing trash, the empty ...Read more

Asking Eric: Friend’s nose-blowing goes too far

Life Advice / Asking Eric /

Dear Eric: We are a group of friends who for many years have been going out to dinner once a month. We are in our 60s to 80s, men and women.

Once we are seated there is this one woman who never fails to take out a tissue and blow her nose but not only blow her nose she will insert the tissue into her nostrils. This is a disgusting habit she has...Read more

Upstaged and Still Upset

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: "Ashton," a popular boy from my child's elementary school class, moved away in the middle of last year. A couple of months later, his mom let me know they would be visiting. She asked if I would organize some of Ashton's classmates for a get-together, and I agreed.

I sent out invitations to meet at a park for two hours to play, ...Read more

Asking Eric: Grandparents forbidden from hugging grandchild

Life Advice / Asking Eric /

Dear Eric: My son has a wonderful family. We have tried to be friends to him and his wife and family. Our son is adopted. I only tell you in case it matters for our problem.

He married his wife when she had a 3-year-old daughter who is now 15. They have a 1-year-old son.

We go to softball tournaments for the 15-year-old. We love them all.

...Read more

From Co-Worker to Confidante

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: I work in a small office where everyone is friendly, but one co-worker has taken "friendly" to a new level. Over the past year, she's begun confiding in me about deeply personal issues: her marriage troubles, financial stress, arguments she's had the night before. At first, I listened out of kindness. But it's becoming a daily ...Read more

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Ask Anna: I didn't care about a wedding ring -- so why do I now?

Life Advice / Dating Advice /

Dear Anna,

When my husband and I got engaged in our 20s, we were barely scraping by. He proposed without a ring, and we got married not long after with a small, low-key ceremony — no bands, no big gestures, just the two of us building a life together. At the time, it felt completely right. Fifteen years and a couple of kids later, things look...Read more

Asking Eric: Teen daughter plans to marry boy who belittles her

Life Advice / Asking Eric /

Dear Eric: My daughter is 17 and has been dating a boy since she was 15. They plan to marry as soon as possible at 18. I'm worried, however, that he's not the guy for her. While he is polite, to us, and hardworking, he has belittled her and seems to try to change her into what he thinks she should be (I have heard this from others).

His mom ...Read more

Chasing Success, Losing Sleep

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: I was really excited when I landed my dream job a few months ago. It has great pay and a title that can really take me places. But now, just a few months in, I'm pulling my hair out. We're in our "busy season," which means lots of late nights and working weekends. Every time I finish one assignment, two more pop up. My problem isn'...Read more

Single File: Learning to Complain

Life Advice / Single File /

Opening your mouth isn't only for feeding; it's also for complaining. But let's face it: Most women don't have much experience expressing negative opinions. Our function as the calmer of troubled waters is so deeply ingrained that it's almost a genetic trait. We've been conditioned to skirt around confrontation and head-on collisions in any form...Read more

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Ask Dating Coach Erika: How to muster up hope when I'm feeling defeated?

Life Advice / Dating Advice /

Another day, another batch of dating questions — some about losing hope in finding a partner, some about defining the relationship, and some about date planning. Perhaps one will especially resonate with you.

Q: We’ve been dating for three months. I’m ready to define the relationship. I'm afraid he might not be ready yet. Bring it up or ...Read more

Asking Eric: Husband posts unflattering photos to his large social media audience

Life Advice / Asking Eric /

Dear Eric: I have been married to a wonderful man for 44 years. My husband has a large following on social media platforms due to his former career. For the most part he makes interesting posts and these posts are seen and commented on by many people.

My complaint is this: my husband seems to (whether intentionally or unintentionally) ...Read more

Holding Firm on Boundaries With Estranged Family

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: I am a woman in my early 40s, living several states away from the town where I grew up. My relationship with my parents has always been complicated, especially with my mother, and for the last 25 years I have also been estranged from my older sister. She still lives near my parents, while I built my life far away.

The issue comes ...Read more

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Book lovers: Five couples wed at Minneapolis library

Life Advice / Dating Advice /

MINNEAPOLIS -- Five Saturday weddings featured something old, something new, something borrowed and something red. Make that something “read,” since the weddings happened at Minneapolis Central Library.

The weddings took place in 15-minute intervals in Pohlad Hall, with receptions in a nearby meeting room. Each couple were allotted 25 ...Read more

Asking Eric: Church group doesn’t care about friend’s wealth

Life Advice / Asking Eric /

Dear Eric: I am part of a group of friends from church. We have known each other for more than 40 years. There is one member who has done very well in business. We are all doing fine financially. The group contains multiple doctors and lawyers. This man however cannot stop bragging about the money and privileges he has acquired. He must workshop...Read more

Splitting the Mental Load Makes for a Healthy Marriage

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: My husband is a wonderful man in many ways, but lately I feel more like the household manager than his wife. We both work full time, yet somehow I am still the one remembering birthdays, scheduling appointments, keeping track of the groceries, planning family events and noticing when something around the house needs to be done. If ...Read more

Asking Eric: Longtime massage therapist won’t stop talking

Life Advice / Asking Eric /

Dear Eric: I have been going to the same massage therapist for about 15 years. I first met them at a nationwide chain massage company and then followed them to a boutique massage business before they moved private services to their house.

They have the same setup at home as a traditional massage company, with all the bells and whistles, in a ...Read more

 

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