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Ask Dating Coach Erika: What should I do if I feel burned out by the dating process?
It's completely normal to feel overwhelmed and exhausted by the online dating process, and dating in general, so you’re in good company — for better or worse.
It can be a lot of work to sift through profiles, craft messages, and go on dates. But there are a few things you can do to help recharge your batteries and feel the positive energy ...Read more
Aging life care managers can be a 'godsend' for families
Kristin Martinelli began her workday at 7:30 a.m. on a recent Monday, completing an online Medicaid recertification form for a client in a nursing home in Austin, Texas.
Next, she drove to meet an 85-year-old and her daughter, who had come in from out of town. The older woman had “pretty advanced dementia” and was scheduled to move into the...Read more
Ex-etiquette: When imitation isn't flattery
Q: What do I do with my husband’s ex-wife? She’s obsessed. It’s the weirdest thing I’ve ever seen. She was brunette when I met her and now, she’s blonde. Not just blonde, but the exact color blonde as my hair. And the same style. We aren’t enemies, but it looks very strange when we sit near each other at the kids’ soccer games. I�...Read more
The Kid Whisperer: How to destroy your kid (in two easy steps!)
I teach adults to teach kids to be better people for a living. As a lifelong educator of both kids and adults, I’ve learned that the human brain has trouble being taught what not to do. That’s why every week in this space I show adults what to do to improve the behaviors of kids.
But, maybe just for fun, this week I’ve decided to abandon ...Read more
Lori Borgman: Confession of an ambidextrous driver
Could someone please explain how a person sitting in the front seat of a vehicle can be labeled a backseat driver? A backseat driver would be someone in the back seat.
Fortunately, a specific label is of little concern to me as I am ambidextrous and can direct from either the front or the back.
My husband is a lucky guy. I remind him all the ...Read more
'It is disheartening': How teachers say technology is destroying students' academic ability
HARTFORD, Conn. -- In a world where students are averaging seven and a half hours a day on screens and attention spans are waning, Connecticut teachers say that students’ reading stamina and comprehension are declining.
That’s according to a recent Connecticut Education Association survey of 113 teachers. The majority of teachers surveyed ...Read more
Mel's Drive-In, Santa Monica's landmark Route 66 diner, faces demolition. Can it be saved?
LOS ANGELES — For decades, the bold, mid-century building at Lincoln and Olympics boulevards in Santa Monica has been the end of the line — the last address on the 2,400-mile westward journey of Route 66. Once home to the Penguin Coffee Shop, today it holds Mel’s Drive-In. But now its future is in doubt.
The owners of the property have ...Read more
Jerry Zezima: Loan officers are in vein
I used to think all the scammers who called to say I was approved for a loan I never asked for were bloodsuckers.
Now I know that one of them is a blood donor.
A snarky guy named “Mike C.” said he was willing to give me a transfusion if I would give him personal information so he could, presumably, drain all the money in my bank account.
...Read more
Heidi Stevens: Shane Gillis 'SNL' opener misses the mark -- and the moment
The most disappointing thing about Shane Gillis’ shopworn, hackneyed, tone-deaf, retrograde, unfunny “Saturday Night Live” open was that he knew it would find an audience.
Even when, maybe especially when, the biggest news story in the nation is about an alleged gang rape on a college campus.
Even when, maybe especially when, that story ...Read more
Riverside has a donkey dilemma. Can science offer clues for coexistence?
For students at UC Riverside, the start of fall semester means picking up their class syllabus, catching up with friends and snapping selfies with the adorable wild donkeys that roam around the school.
The hoofed Highlanders have been embraced as an unofficial mascot on campus, with Reddit threads dedicated to donkey spotting and burro plushies...Read more
On Gardening: Have a blast with the 2027 'Caladium of the Year'
If you are growing Surefire Red begonias, white Diamond Snow euphorbia and Unplugged So Blue salvia, it certainly stands to reason you need some rockets. In this case, may I recommend Heart to Heart Bottle Rocket, which was just announced as the Proven Winners 2027 "Caladium of the Year."
You may be wondering why The Garden Guy is talking about...Read more
As families balk at college costs, some private schools cut tuition and debt
MINNEAPOLIS — Several Minnesota private colleges have recently introduced creative efforts to prove to students and parents that they’re affordable, both in the cost of attending now — tuition, room and board and fees — and the amount of loan debt students will owe after graduation.
From Winona to St. Paul, colleges and universities’ ...Read more
Ask Anna: Do I uproot my life for the woman I love?
Dear Anna,
Here’s the condensed version. I’ve been with my partner for three years, and from the day we met she’s talked about moving overseas someday. I always supported that in theory, but then we fell in love, and “someday” quietly slipped to the background. Last week she told me she’s accepted a job in Ireland and leaves in ...Read more
Seniors will pay more for Medicare in 2027; big changes coming across all plans
FORT LAUDERDALE, Fla. -- Florida’s 5.3 million Medicare enrollees face a sweeping financial squeeze in 2027 as rising monthly premiums, higher prescription deductibles, and shrinking Medicare Advantage benefits hit simultaneously.
Medicare experts warn that keeping coverage on “autopilot” during Open Enrollment (from Oct. 15 to Dec. 7) ...Read more
Ask Dating Coach Erika: Are we doomed?
I get so many questions asking some variation of, “This thing happened or is about to happen. Are we doomed?” Some things are doomable offenses, sure. But many can be worked around or dealt with.
Rather than having a catastrophic reaction, it’s important to drill down to the actual topic at hand to see if it’s really so black and white...Read more
Advocates sound alarm on fake service dogs. 'The laws are vaguely written'
HARTFORD, Conn. -- Connecticut resident Olivia Streaman first applied for a service dog four years ago for her father who has Parkinson’s disease, a decision she calls “life-changing” after it allowed her father to maintain his independence and help with his mobility.
Streaman, who saw up close the powerful bond between her father and his...Read more
What it will take for the Griffith Park merry-go-round to finally spin again
LOS ANGELES -- Nestled a short stroll from the Griffith Park Ranger Station, near some tennis courts and not far from the remains of the park's original zoo lies a gem that is on most days behind lock and key. The Griffith Park merry-go-round, which turned 100 this year, stands motionless, many of its 66 wooden horses weathered and caught mid-...Read more
Point Breeze's Keith Haring mural is designated as a historical place
PHILADELPHIA -- Keith Haring’s famed 1987 mural "We the Youth," the artist’s only collaborative mural that still stands in its original location, is now an officially designated historical place.
At a public meeting on Friday, the Philadelphia Historical Commission voted unanimously to add the Point Breeze mural, on a rowhouse at 22nd and ...Read more
Lori Borgman: The problem with you, me and we
I blame Merriam-Webster. They define “we” as a plural pronoun when everybody knows “we” most often means another person in the room.
For example, we are eating a stuffed crust pizza and I say, “We need to watch what we eat,” meaning my better half might want to lighten up on the late-night ice cream.
“We” is most often a subtle...Read more
Ex-etiquette: Who gets to go trick-or-treating?
Q. Halloween falls on my ex’s night this year, and I’m really disappointed. Our kids are 6 and 9, and I’ve always taken them trick-or-treating. I asked if I could come along, but my ex said no because it’s her parenting time. I think we should both be able to participate in special occasions regardless of whose night it is. What’s good...Read more
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