Dear Anna,

I'm 34 and just came out to myself (and a few close friends) as gay after years of thinking I was just "bad at dating men" or "too picky." Looking back, all the signs were there, but I genuinely thought my lack of attraction to boyfriends was normal and that romantic love was just something that happened in movies. I've spent the ...Read more

Suppose you’re unexpectedly called into your boss’s office one day and given the tough news that you’re getting laid off. Panic sets in as you think about bills, rent and putting food on the table.

It’s a situation that many of us fear. Unexpected events such as job loss, medical emergencies and car repairs can happen to anyone, without...Read more

Hallelujah, it's hydrangea season! Actually, hydrangea season comes early in the Deep South and even more so if you are growing Let’s Dance Sky View hydrangea. This will be my third year, and the first week of May always brings a bubbling of blooms.

To me this explosion of blooms with the onset of spring makes it the most precocious variety ...Read more

ST. PAUL, Minn. -- Baseball fans might read “Casey at the Bat.”

Runners have “To an Athlete Dying Young.”

Basketball star Kobe Bryant wrote an ode to his sport called “Dear Basketball.”

And now there’s a poem celebrating pickleball. Actually, there are 80 of them.

Two paddles hung in a Dick’s emporium,

And I --

I bought the...Read more

I got a question recently from a woman asking me whether she should be concerned that the man she just went out with (he’s 57; she’s 51) had previously been in a relationship with a 23-year-old. My response, based on no additional information about either of them, was: It’s unclear.

To be honest, it was less the age gap that raised a red ...Read more

Debt collectors use intentionally annoying and anxiety-inducing tactics to get you to pay the bill. When faced with these tense interactions, it’s important to understand the best ways to deal with debt collectors, including knowing what they are and are not legally allowed to do.

This knowledge will help you protect your rights and decide ...Read more

Paying off debt requires commitment and patience. You’ll need to carefully review your current debts, spending and budget and understand the available options you have at your disposal.

With this information, you can create and implement a successful debt repayment strategy to help you pay debt off faster and build healthy financial habits ...Read more

The morning after a storm that snapped tree branches, sent people to their basements and trash cans to the curbs, I was sitting in a line of traffic adjacent to a small family-owned garden store.

A woman out front of the garden shop struggled to untangle flagpole ropes twisted in the storm. Hunched over in an awkward position, she couldn’t ...Read more

Dear Kid Whisperer,

I am a huge fan. I’ve gone to your conference and I’ve read your book. I think I may be too huge of a fan because I have offended a co-worker with my fandom. There is another seventh-grade teacher next door to me who I share students with. Just like I did before I met you, she really struggles with behavior management. ...Read more

Q. I’m close to both my dad and my bonus dad, and when there is a day like Father’s Day, I feel as if I have to choose. They have never required it and if I said something, they would both feel bad because my family has worked so hard at getting along. It’s still difficult to figure out the logistics of a day like that because it’s not ...Read more

Budgeting is the financial equivalent of eating your vegetables. It may seem unpleasant, even grueling, but it’s ultimately good for your financial health.

Budgeting is also unpopular. Bankrate’s latest Money and Mental Health Survey shows that less than one-third (29%) of Americans reviewed their budget during a 30-day period between mid-...Read more

When we dropped off our daughter at the airport in January for her semester abroad in Paris, I took a picture as she walked through the TSA security line, and my heart felt caught in my throat.

We would be separated by an ocean and 4,000-plus miles for more than four months — our longest stretch of time apart since she was born. When I was a ...Read more

CHICAGO — A chatty animated amphibian starring in videos for Bad Bunny’s recent album has launched the Puerto Rican crested toad — an endangered species native to the island — into newfound fame, following years of quiet, collaborative conservation efforts involving Chicago’s Brookfield Zoo.

“They’re kind of famous now,” said ...Read more

MIAMI — Stew — a big pot of it — with onions, potatoes and bell peppers. Maybe a little bit of meat, if they’re lucky, Jackie Brown muttered, chewing over potential dinner ideas for her family as she surveyed the produce refrigerator at the Feeding South Florida food bank in Pembroke Park on a recent afternoon. She was planning a week of...Read more

Wondering if this begonia can provide you color for the entire garden season? Well, you are Surefire shootin' straight. The commercial landscape industry is showing the Southeast that this is one tough flower for home or business and the award-winning Surefire series is leading the way.

There are four colors in the series: Surefire Red, Rose, ...Read more

WINDOM, Minn. — His brown eyes stare directly at the viewer, not as a challenge, but as their equal.

At a time when immigration stings are breaking apart families, sweeping innocent and guilty alike into their net, the young boy’s gaze conveys a humanity that will not be denied.

“I’m NOT illegal,” he has written on the wooden back of...Read more

I spent a recent Saturday morning at St. Catherine of Siena, a beautiful, sun-filled Catholic church in my hometown — a building I drove by more times than I can possibly count but had never stepped inside before May.

When I was growing up, we attended a tiny Lutheran church the next town over — a building that changed hands almost a decade...Read more

If you are thinking about baby names you may want to make sure the names you have in mind are legal in your state.

Each state has its own naming laws and at least 11 names have been previously banned in the United States, according to USbirthcertificates.com. A list of guidelines and requirements rule out other possible names as well.

The ...Read more

STONE HARBOR, N.J. -- Lenore Tedesco doesn’t need to venture far to witness sea-level rise. She tracks its relentless advance from her window at work.

Tedesco, executive director of the Wetlands Institute in Stone Harbor, stood by the nonprofit’s large conference room window in late May, surveying an expanse of salt marsh known as Scotch ...Read more

At the Library of Congress last month, Roberto Díaz was playing on an exceedingly rare viola. What didn’t cross his mind, he says, is just how much the hunk of maple and spruce clutched beneath his chin was worth.

Which is perhaps a good thing.

The Tuscan-Medici viola from the workshop of Antonio Stradivari was recently valued at $30 ...Read more