DENVER -- Jeremy Gendelman sat his paternal grandfather down at their family’s Denver kitchen table in 2008, a camcorder trained on him, and asked a single question.

“Where were you born?”

Yakov “Yasha” Gendelman didn’t stop talking for three hours.

“I was born in 1930 in the Soviet Union,” Yasha began. “My childhood was not...Read more

CHICAGO — One of the world’s leading experts in the realm of serial killers grew up on the Northwest Side of the city and now lives in Lincoln Square. His name is John Borowski and he looks very much like a normal person and expresses himself with passion and intelligence, even though much of his working life is filled with some of the ...Read more

The Supertunia Tiara duo debuted in 2025 and in this brief amount of time has become the darling of the landscape. The love and admiration from gardeners across the country including my area of West Georgia and East Alabama has been nothing short of WOW! As much as gardeners treasure their Supertunia Vista Bubblegum petunias, Supertunia Pink ...Read more

LOS ANGELES — Walking is my salvation. Vigorous solo walks through Griffith Park are both my go-to exercise and meditations-in-motion. I regularly "walk the day off" there, or stroll around the Silver Lake reservoir after work to unwind. I don't listen to music or podcasts or even the news. Instead, I tune into my rhythmic footsteps and the ...Read more

Dear Anna,

I recently introduced my friend, let’s call her M, to a guy I’d befriended through my climbing gym about a year ago. I’d had a feeling she’d like-like him, but the rub is that he’s in a long-distance relationship. I also knew the guy friend had been struggling with his LDR, but it’s been a minute since he’s said ...Read more

A week before Americans went to the polls and flipped a historic number of U.S. House seats, U.S. Senate seats and governor seats to the Democrats, Amy Acton said human decency was on the ballot.

"Kindness is a fierce commitment to justice and seeing the humanity and the God in one another," Acton told a crowd of supporters gathered at Liberty ...Read more

FORT WORTH, Texas — Ron King loves donkeys.

It wasn’t always that way for the Arkansas-born, and partially Fort Worth-raised, former media executive. That is, until he saw a TikTok video six years ago.

King had recently been laid off from his job in print media — where he ran magazines like InStyle and Southern Living — and then COVID ...Read more

ROCKFORD, Ill. — Plumes of smoke billowed from the steep-pitched roof of a northern Illinois church one winter night after its organ caught fire during a practice session.

Everyone was evacuated from the property. No one was hurt in the Feb. 23 blaze at Christ United Methodist Church in Rockford, which firefighters quickly extinguished and ...Read more

SAN JOSE, Calif. -- Over the years, Stephanie Wallace and her twin sister, Della, have recruited extra roommates to make ends meet, first their brother, Joshua, then his girlfriend, Diana, as rent climbed to $3,700 on their two-bedroom apartment in San Jose. Still, they scrimp on groceries to pay the utilities and are planning to get rid of ...Read more

I got this question the other day:

“What’s your advice on getting back into the dating pool after a breakup? Is there a certain amount of time one should wait? Or, is it a case of getting back on the horse right after falling off? My heart was broken recently … and my friends are telling me to get back out there and date. My walls have ...Read more

CHICAGO — Nothing lasts forever but a series of events presented by the First Friday Club of Chicago has quietly reached its 41st year and continues to do what it has always done, which is offer an oasis of lively conversation, and often wisdom and wit, in this frenetic planet.

As the world has become an increasingly remote and icy place — ...Read more

What a strange world we live in that I have to make the point that adults are the heads of their households.

The evidence for the apparent need for this clarification is all around us. So many parents seem to need to be told that a family is not a group of friends who happen to be related to each other. Friends are equals; healthy friend-to-...Read more

Q: Our breakup was nasty, and I rarely talk to my child’s other parent. When we do, it’s on a court-ordered app. Lately I have been getting notifications that my ex is trying to talk to me. I don’t want to talk. He drives me crazy. How can I convince the court that my child is better off with me? What’s good ex-etiquette?

A: I ...Read more

“Sit down and take a deep breath,” the husband says, as he brings in the mail. “You’re going to love this.”

“We won the Publishers Clearing House sweepstakes!” I yell.

“No,” he says.

“It’s a check from the government saying they’re sorry they overcharged us on taxes for the past 45 years.”

“Wrong again,” he says...Read more

Karlo Campana is usually outnumbered these days. He has three young kids under age 4. On a recent Saturday, he played a mini game of basketball with his two older kids in their Southern California home, shooting a ball into a hoop on the door, while his baby boy watched from his bouncy chair.

Campana took paid time off in May after the birth of...Read more

I don’t want to beat around the bush, so I’ll come right out and say it: I should start a hedge fund.

It could have paid for my hospital stay — or, worse, my funeral — after I came close to being electrocuted while trimming the hedges.

Instead, I should have paid my wife, Sue, the going rate for being a master electrician. That’s ...Read more

Costs are soaring for people who care for their older parents and other family members, according to a new study.

Out-of-pocket expenses are nearly 60% higher than they were just five years ago for family caregivers, who now spend an average of $11,508 a year on caregiving, according to a report released this week by AARP, a nonprofit that ...Read more

ELKHORN, Wis. — Bray Road runs for 3 miles through Elkhorn, Wisconsin. At the south, it begins not far from Lake Geneva. Enter off U.S. Route 12, curl east, and other than a slight jog, it’s pretty much a straight shot to State Route 11. Hence all the snaking peel-out marks left by amateur racers. Foliage rustles in the autumn wind here, and...Read more

In case you haven’t noticed, you have been living through an explosion of new varieties when it comes to hydrangeas. It has been like a wonderful tsunami of shrubs that we could not have even dreamed about.

Today I looked at the Proven Winners online catalog and there were 66 varieties. Can you imagine how many there would be if you counted ...Read more

Dear Anna,

I’m 29, and my fiancee is 28. We’ve been together for five years and are supposed to get married next spring. Since I proposed about a year ago, her mental health has gotten progressively worse, and she’s not seeking any kind of treatment for it. She eventually quit her job and now spends most of her days at home. I work full ...Read more