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DEAR HARRIETTE: I went on a first date last weekend with the founder of a startup. We went out for dinner and got drinks afterward. I had a great time. He says he wants to keep seeing me; however, he travels a lot for work, so I won't be able to see him again until late next month. I don't know if I want to be with someone who is never around. I...Read more

DEAR MISS MANNERS: Less than 48 hours after my husband and I attended a gathering at the home of a couple from our walking group, I received a text from the hostess that read, "I hope you enjoyed the party. Should I assume it was an oversight on your part not to send a thank-you note? We believe we were gracious hosts and would appreciate ...Read more

Dear Annie: I am writing about a friendship that has weighed on my heart for quite some time. I have known this woman for more than 20 years, and in many ways, she has been a loyal and lively part of my life. We have celebrated happy occasions together, seen one another through disappointments and shared the kind of history that is not easily ...Read more

DEAR ABBY: I have a neurological disorder and can no longer keep up with my friends (who used to be my friends). I don't explain the problems I have and why I can't do the things I used to do unless they ask. I still drive, but I have trouble walking. I have a wonderful husband who helps me all the time. I'm lucky I can do what I do, but I am ...Read more

The main hall of the convention center had been split into several rows, with dozens of separate tables. The interviewers, career professionals from banks, non-profits, or boards, knew automatically to sit against the temporary canvas walls below a printout of a number. The students would sit across from them. The older men and women knew the ...Read more

Dear Annie: Easter arrives with beauty all its own. It comes dressed in spring light, blooming branches, pastel colors and the quiet comfort of knowing that life can begin again. For many, it is a deeply meaningful holy day. For others, it is a moment to gather with family, share a meal and welcome the fresh start that spring seems to offer us...Read more

DEAR ABBY: My husband is very temperamental. When something goes wrong with his meal or service at a restaurant, or when he's driving and gets upset with another driver, he angrily vents to me nonstop, repeating the same things over and over. This happens only when we're alone, not when friends or family members are present. When I ask him to ...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: I have been in conflict with my husband for years. We used to enjoy each other's company, but somewhere down the line that changed. Now I am not interested in the things he likes to watch on YouTube, which he seems to have on 24 hours a day. He couldn't care less about what I like to watch. He is retired now and barely wants to ...Read more

DEAR MISS MANNERS: What is the proper way to refuse a gentleman's invitation for a date? The little white lie seems wrong, and does not discourage the gentleman from issuing more unwanted invitations.

Is there a way to salvage his ego, particularly when one is genuinely appreciative of courteous and courageous efforts? Friends suggest calling ...Read more

Dear Annie: My question is: Can I still keep going to my church or is it time to cut ties? This is complicated because my husband was a pastor and I appreciated him greatly as a preacher. He took early retirement, but we stayed in the same town because I had a good job and we needed my income and insurance until I could retire.

Unfortunately,...Read more

DEAR ABBY: My son is getting married next year. He and his future wife are extremely religious. My daughter (his sister) is also engaged -- to a wonderful woman. Because of my daughter's lesbian relationship, my son does not plan to invite his sister's fiancee to the wedding, saying their values don't align. (If he didn't feel obligated, he ...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: My friend recently got a dog, but she and her family travel a lot, so they need to find care for the dog when they leave. I have been friends with her for more than 20 years and love animals, so I have been watching her dog. However, she doesn't ever pay me for doing this. Sometimes they are away for three weeks or more, and I ...Read more

DEAR MISS MANNERS: I am retired and have millions of dollars. Trust me.

We tell people who are coming for dinner: DO NOT BRING ANYTHING. In fact, I have a memo that makes it incredibly clear that this is exactly what we mean. But some a-holes bring something anyway. The response from me is very unpleasant, and then my husband gets all ...Read more

Dear Annie: My husband and I host Easter brunch every year for both sides of the family -- about 16 people total. I cook a big frittata, a glazed ham, homemade rolls and a salad or two.

My problem is my sister-in-law, "Brenda." For the past four years, she has signed up to bring dessert. And every year, she arrives with the exact same thing: ...Read more

DEAR ABBY: I have a situation with this guy I've known for five years. We dated in the summer of sixth grade, but it wasn't serious, and we broke up after a month. But we always kept in touch and had secret feelings for each other.

We have never done anything more than talk and haven't dated since. We both get mad or awkward when the other one ...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: When I was younger, I developed a strange habit of picking at the back of my hair. I did it so much that my hair thinned almost completely on the back of my head. I ended up getting a pixie cut to mask the hair loss. The beauty hack worked perfectly -- for a while, anyway.

As an adult, my bad habit has returned, but now I tend ...Read more