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Every online dater knows the emotional roller coaster of the process. After spending tons of time crafting your bio and choosing photos, you finally feel all the stress and effort is worthwhile when you start coming across promising profiles and starting meaningful conversations. Things reach a new level of excitement when you finally agree to ...Read more

Dear Anna,

I’ve never been on a real date, and I’ve never been in a relationship. Whenever I’m asked on a “date,” it turns into a hookup really fast — or sometimes it was basically a booty call from the start. And like a dumb a**, I let it happen.

I’m tired of accepting that I’ll never be in a relationship and that I’ll ...Read more

Another day, another set of dating questions. In my now 15 years of being a dating coach, the questions have changed over time. In 2011, when sites like Match.com, eHarmony and OkCupid reigned supreme, things were slower paced. (Not quite, “It’s lost in the mail,” but you get it.)

Now, with dating apps at our fingertips and texting being ...Read more

Whether it’s at work, in our personal lives or even something as specific as cooking dinner every night, we all experience burnout at one time or another. So, it’s no surprise that online dating is no exception to the rule.

Finding a romantic relationship may feel like the top priority at times, but that is going to be a lot harder if you�...Read more

Dear Anna,

I could use your help. I rent a parking space during the workweek from a very charming woman who lives in the building across from my office. A coworker connected us through the doorman when I was looking for a space.

From the first time we spoke, there was a … familiarity. She asked if we’d met before. She’s always been kind ...Read more

Dear Readers: Since announcing my departure from writing this syndicated column, I have heard from scores of people across various platforms, thanking me for more than two decades of offering advice and wishing me well in my “retirement.” I am very touched and grateful for this outpouring of support.

The thing is – I don’t think of ...Read more