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Ask Dating Coach Erika: How to muster up hope when I'm feeling defeated?
Another day, another batch of dating questions — some about losing hope in finding a partner, some about defining the relationship, and some about date planning. Perhaps one will especially resonate with you.
Q: We’ve been dating for three months. I’m ready to define the relationship. I'm afraid he might not be ready yet. Bring it up or ...Read more
Book lovers: Five couples wed at Minneapolis library
MINNEAPOLIS -- Five Saturday weddings featured something old, something new, something borrowed and something red. Make that something “read,” since the weddings happened at Minneapolis Central Library.
The weddings took place in 15-minute intervals in Pohlad Hall, with receptions in a nearby meeting room. Each couple were allotted 25 ...Read more
Ask Anna: We opened our marriage -- so why am I the only one striking out?
Dear Anna,
My husband and I opened our marriage about six months ago — something we'd talked about for years and finally decided to try. We did everything "right": read the books, had the long conversations, established our agreements. But six months in, the experiment seems to be working for exactly one of us. He has two new partners he sees...Read more
Ask Dating Coach Erika: Are there questions I can ask early to know if someone's for me long-term?
As a dating coach, I get a lot of questions along the lines of, “Are there questions I can ask early to know if someone’s for me long-term?” Or the more blunt, “How can I tell early if I’m about to waste my time?” (For starters, that attitude isn’t helping.)
I’d like to explain an analogy I use called Chicken Nugget Theory.
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Ask Anna: So you want a threesome without wrecking your relationship
Dear Anna,
My girlfriend and I (both mid-30s, both queer women) have been together for almost two years, and our relationship is solid — we communicate well, trust each other and have a great sex life. Recently, we’ve been talking about the possibility of having a threesome. Neither of us has done this before, and we’re both genuinely ...Read more
Ask Dating Coach Erika: Why isn't my profile working?
Writing an online dating profile can be daunting, and it’s out of a lot of people’s comfort zones. We’re taught not to brag, but isn’t that what online dating is — a chance to showcase who you are? Yes and no.
Talking about yourself is hard — your hobbies and interests and a little background at a minimum. Plus elements of your ...Read more
Commentary: Women aren't too picky to date. They just don't need men to feel fulfilled
Across Los Angeles, you can feel the shift in dating without anyone saying it out loud.
Men talk about how hard it’s become to meet someone, while women talk about how peaceful life feels now on their own. The gap between those experiences is often framed as women asking for too much, but that explanation misses what’s actually changed. ...Read more
Ask Anna: My boyfriend body-shamed me (by accident)
Dear Anna,
I’ve been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half, and our relationship has been really solid — he’s kind, thoughtful and we’re genuinely happy together. I lost about 80 pounds a few years ago before we met, and he’s only ever known me at my current weight. Last week, my sister showed him an old photo from my high ...Read more
Ask Dating Coach Erika: How do you think dating is different than it used to be?
When I saw my parents recently, I thought it would be fun, both as a dating coach and as their daughter, to ask them about how they met and how their relationship progressed. I always knew some details, but I didn’t know the full story. March 16 marked their 46th wedding anniversary, so I would like to give tribute to them in this article.
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No longer old-school, matchmaking is drawing younger, more diverse singles looking for connections
CHICAGO -- Alicia Williams has had some rough dating experiences.
The 29-year-old mom of two dated a guy who claimed he was divorced, even presenting her with papers to prove it. It turns out they were fake because, after Williams searched social media and public records, she discovered he was still married.
“He was telling me he wants to ...Read more
Gen Z is the loneliest generation. Here's what can help
We are more connected than ever before, with our high-speed internet, pinging smartphones and ever-updating apps and social media networks. (iPhone 17e, anyone?!)
And yet, we are also lonelier than ever, especially younger generations who are even more likely to be on their digital devices for longer periods of time. Gen Z, it turns out, is the...Read more
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