Ask Amy: Step-children offer humiliation as their gift
At the graveside service, our long-time business associate (and family friend) of 45 years would not shake hands with my son’s boyfriend.
My son had to introduce his boyfriend twice before our family friend eventually shook his hand.
I’ve always suspected that he is homophobic, though he has never said anything out loud.
I did not witness the interaction, but I know how disrespected my son felt.
It was an added anguish to an already stressful day.
And of course, I am outraged and want to contact the family friend and question him about this blatant bigotry.
He usually seems to appear kind and thoughtful, in all other interactions.
My question to you is how should I respond/deal with a close business associate and family friend who demonstrates behavior that I believe needs to be called out?
I am considering sending an email to him, but would like your advice.
– Incensed Mother
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