Ask Amy: Retired teachers not fans of loan forgiveness
I have forgiven Pat, I just don't want to have anything to do with her.
Am I being petty?
– Barely Made It Home
Dear Barely Made It: A friend in need is a friend, indeed.
I agree with you that in this instance, “Pat” demonstrated a complete lack of regard for your basic needs. It’s tough to reckon with the faults and failings of someone you’ve known for a very long time, but for you – this episode brought on a reckoning, and once you’ve gotten to that point, it’s hard to get back.
I’m glad you’ve forgiven Pat; I don’t blame you for keeping your distance, now.
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