Wife struggles to regain trust after betrayal
Dear Amy: My husband met a woman at work, and they've become friends. I didn't find out about her until my husband came to visit me at my job, because he said something was on his mind. He proceeded to tell me about this friend and how they had shared a kiss and had been "sexting." He told me he'd sent her a picture of his privates.
Of course, I demanded that he delete her phone numbers, pictures and Facebook-related items, which he did.
A month or two later, he asked if he could get her phone number and take a picture with her, as she was leaving that place of employment.
I said, "You know how I feel, but I'll leave it up to you."
He ended up retrieving both her phone number, and getting photo with her.
I feel like they should have no contact at all, but then I'm told I'm too jealous and that they're just friends. She has expressed her romantic feelings for him.
I have endured suicidal thoughts because I felt like I was losing my husband and my marriage.
I live day by day, but the pain of what has happened eats at me all the time.
Am I crazy for feeling this way?
-- Betrayed
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