Dear Answer Angel Ellen: I’m the president of the board for a nonprofit animal rescue in a hot climate. Our top executive does a terrific job with the center, but she’s sartorially challenged. It’s OK that she wears shorts, flip-flops and a T-shirt with an animal on it while she’s at the center, but she wears the same outfit when she presents at city council meetings and other such. I did suggest she might want to up her game a bit when she speaks in public, and she agreed. The next meeting she had moved up to a top and skirt — that were bland, at best. I think she thinks she nailed it. So, how do I delicately suggest a modest makeover to someone who probably thinks she’s on target?
— Call me “Mike”
Dear Mike: Stop right there. As the board president, it was appropriate for you to be concerned that the staff leader of your nonprofit appear professional when representing the group in a business setting like the one you describe. Flip-flops and shorts are too casual for a city council presentation, and she agreed. So far so good. Whether her otherwise suitable clothes are “bland” is none of your business. Whatsoever. If she asks for your advice, fine. Otherwise, keep quiet.
Dear Answer Angel Ellen: Are neck scarves still fashionable?
— Christine K.
Dear Christine: Always. A colorful scarf (or a piece of interesting jewelry) can make a big difference and dress up an otherwise bland outfit (like the executive woman in the first question above). Pack a few scarves for a trip, for instance, and nobody will notice you’re wearing the same neutral shirt or pants several days in a row.
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