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Ask Amy: Dating after divorce exposes extreme vulnerability

Amy Dickinson, Tribune Content Agency on

Dear Amy: I ended a long and terrible marriage with an addict a couple of years ago.

The marriage was over for a long time but because of debt and the pandemic, it took us a lot longer than I wanted for the marriage to finally be done.

By the end, it was like a prison sentence.

Throughout that process and for a couple years after, I spent time working on being a stronger, independent person – both for myself and for my daughters.

Recently I started trying to date again.

I met a few very nice men, but I didn’t really connect. I was sure that I was good and happy being single.


But then I met a man who really got to me. We’ve been seeing each other for about a month. Now I’m smitten.

My problem now is that I’m so attracted to him and so scared of being hurt that I just want to break up before that happens.

I know he likes me too, but I don’t think he likes me as much as I do him.

It’s a very scary place to be.


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