Online relationship might be a catfish
Should I confront my mother about this?
Have you heard of this behavior before?
-- Wondering
Dear Wondering: It's a common misconception that all parents know and love all children equally, but in reality, parents love their various children in varied ways. Your mother has much more intensive contact with your siblings. She simply seems to know and be more comfortable with them.
I don't think you should "confront" your mother, as much as offer to talk to her about this. You should also understand that the more experiences you two share, the less awkward your relationship might be. Activities other than sharing meals (such as an occasional museum visit), might help you to connect.
Dear Amy: The question from "Third Wheel" made me crazy. This older woman had moved across the country to live with a guy who then rejected her and reconciled with his wife.
I wish people valued themselves more.
-- Bart
Dear Bart: Me too. Many personal problems would be avoided if we all just valued ourselves more.
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