Love and honesty will get us through
It was a family event for the ages.
Last weekend, my family traveled to Gettysburg to attend my nephew’s wedding.
I drove my mother down Friday so she could participate in the rehearsal. We had a wonderful drive talking about a variety of things, mostly stories about my father, who we lost last year.
After the rehearsal, we attended a welcome party, where we had great fun catching up with my cousins and other family members.
The room was filled with intense joy. Every person there was experiencing it, for the simple and wonderful reason that two very beautiful souls — my nephew Elliott and his beautiful fiancé Catherine — would be united as one the following day.
We’ve all been to weddings in which we think: “I give this couple two weeks!”
My nephew’s wedding was the polar opposite: He and “Cat” were meant to be — and I think I know why.
It’s because of my father.
My father had a difficult childhood, losing his own father when he was only 3. His mother went to work, and he was often alone. He drifted until he found a father figure in his football coach — and until he met a pretty young lady named Betty Jane Hartner.
He was only 17 when that happened, but it was lights out for him the moment his eyes met hers.
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