Elderly mother is caught in an anxious cycle
Amy Dickinson, Tribune Content Agency
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I've spoken to him about paying his share of our living expenses, and he gets upset immediately.
He says he loves me, but I have trouble believing him.
I feel at times that he is getting a free ride.
He never helps around the house, and doesn't keep his word.
I'm so tired wondering if he wants a lover or a mother.
I’m hoping you can help me figure this out.
– Wondering
Dear Wondering: I’m glad you turned to me.
Wonder no longer!
Despite your generous attitude, according to your narrative, even in the early days of your relationship, this dude did not actually share everything. In fact, he doesn’t seem to have shared anything. You’ve been paying full freight and carrying the full weight of this relationship.
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