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Ask Amy: Retirees wrangle over the true cost of love

Amy Dickinson, Tribune Content Agency on

Money is important. And choices regarding money are often placeholders for other issues in the relationship. So yes, I suspect that there is a deeper issue here.

If your wife chooses to leave the marriage and file for divorce, then she presumably would receive roughly half of your shared assets.

You two could work on this with the valuable help of a mediator. Mediators frequently work with relationship counselors to help couples come to terms with vital issues affecting their future, including the choice to part company, if it comes to that.

Dear Amy: With the holidays approaching, I need your advice.

I have been with my wife for 22 years.

We have two wonderful children together.

 

I love her family, however, I dread spending time at her family's home.

For one thing I am completely bored at her mother's house.

I work hard and rarely take a vacation.

Secondly, my nieces and nephews that I have watched grow up have grown mostly into insufferable know-it-all bores. I dread their presence.

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