Ask Amy: Country living was great, until brother arrived
Dear Grieving: You haven’t known “Andy” very long – and you might not know him very well, but you should check in with him. Invite him out for coffee with just the two of you, or ask if he’d like to come to your home for drinks or dinner.
If you are hosting a gathering with other friends, ask if he would like to join you.
He can accept or decline your overtures, and if he accepts he might develop a friendship with you and your husband – or others in your circle.
Yes – this is awkward. Push through that feeling and reach out.
Dear Amy: “Open Minded Daughter” had discovered the man whose sperm was used for her conception. She said her folks had never told her and she was worried about confronting them.
I think she should talk to her mother first. It’s possible that her mother never disclosed this to her husband.
– Been There
Dear Been There: I am aware that some women have conceived children through donation without disclosing to their partners. Good advice.
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