Ask Amy: For worriers, it’s always time to make the donuts
Dear Friend: If you are connected with this couple on social media, then you have a channel through which to communicate.
Yes, I think you should reach out. You do not need to refer to the frail appearance of this spouse, but you could message them to say, “I just saw a picture of ‘George’ on FB and it made me think of you and to remember some of our times together. I hope you are both doing OK, and encourage you to reach out if ever you would like to be in touch.”
Dear Amy: Regarding the letter from “Proud Daughter of a Veteran,” the National Cemetery Administration (part of Veterans Affairs) has a new process to assist veterans, their families, caregivers, and survivors in planning for burials with military honors.
Here is the website: https://www.va.gov/burials-memorials/pre-need-eligibility/
– Ted Wong, Branch Chief-CX Communications Sustainment, Veterans Experience Office
Dear Ted: Thank you! To clarify – this site helps families to determine eligibility. It is not necessary to register in advance of a veteran’s passing.
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