Ask Amy: For worriers, it’s always time to make the donuts
Cogent teachers who will help you to work through these feelings and impulses are: Pema Chodron, Brene Brown, and Glennon Doyle. All have multiple books and video teachings available.
Dear Amy: Several years ago, longtime friends ghosted us.
There was no argument that precipitated that occurrence.
I asked what was wrong and was told that she and her husband “have decided to travel alone because they are fuddie-duddies.”
We had vacationed together for years and there was no change in how we did the arrangements.
They totally cut us off after this and there has been no contact since.
A recent picture on social media showed the spouse looking quite frail, as if they were on chemo.
I don’t know whether to reach out, since I do not know for sure – or whether to let things stand as they are.
What do you think?
– Ghosted Friend
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