Ask Amy: Woman wants partner to go under the knife
Why is he ignoring me, if he said the day before that he loves me so much and values me?
I am genuinely confused.
-- Confused
Dear Confused: During this very anxious national moment, a lot of people are seeing their anxiety and depression spike. It is possible that your boyfriend is pulling away from you because he is pulling away from everyone. Unfortunately, you cannot force him to the phone if he is dodging you.
For the next few weeks, be extremely gentle and understanding. Ask him if he is OK, tell him that you are always available to talk, but do not push too hard.
One resource for people in crisis is Crisis Text Line. Simply text 741-741 and a crisis counselor will quickly connect with you.
Dear Amy: I was somewhat taken aback that "Lea, in Santa Cruz, CA," refers to her adult children living at home as "tenants." What's with that?
-- I'm a Mom, not a Landlord
Dear Mom: Well, the law considers adult children living at home with their folks as "tenants," also. Parents quickly learn this when trying to "evict" them.
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