Woman wrestles with tempting attraction
Dear Amy: I'm a happily married woman. My husband of 10 years and I are parents of a daughter.
I recently went on a volunteering trip to Asia. We were a group of women volunteers, who came from all over the world.
Something changed for me during my time there, as I became incredibly attracted to one of the girls in the group.
I have to say I fell in love. We were working for a common goal and I found her down to earth and incredibly original. I never told her about this.
I felt that maybe she felt the same way, but I am not 100 percent sure.
She has a boyfriend. I always knew I was bisexual but never acted on it. I've never been involved with any women, as I am very happy with my husband.
I wanted to talk to her about this while we were still there, but I never got a chance.
We are all back in our own countries now. I thought I would emerge from this. But I can't stop thinking about her.
One part of me says that I should tell her about this, but another part tells me not to mess with her head as I am not expecting anything out of this.
But I do need closure, somehow.
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