Wife learns she isn't named as husband's beneficiary
Dear Amy: I am nearing 70 years old.
My friends and family consider me a very smart woman whom they frequently seek out for advice. Now I need some advice.
I married in my teens, was divorced in my 30s and remained single for over 20 years.
I dedicated those years to my children, and they are fine, family-oriented, responsible adults.
In my late 50s I met a man whose company and conversation I enjoyed. He's tall, dark, handsome, financially responsible and passionate.
Five years later, in our 60s, we got married. We've enjoyed our life together.
Unfortunately, recently I found out that my husband's first wife is the beneficiary on his pension. He says that because of government intervention in their pension plan, this can't be changed!
Amy, I am hurt and distraught.
I don't want to live my golden years worrying that I won't be able to take care of myself financially if my husband dies first.
He has no life insurance, and he gets my pension if I die first.
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