Woman wonders why others report #MeToo moments
For any person, finding and using your voice is the gateway not only to personal power and self-esteem, but also to compassion toward others. And so even if you choose not to report, you shouldn't judge those who do.
Dear Amy: I went to a party that a co-worker was throwing.
I got really drunk and made out with her ex (not knowing that he was her ex).
Before making out with him, I asked a girlfriend, who was there, if this guy was good people and she said yes.
Unfortunately, the next day, I found out that he was my co-worker's ex.
I sent my co-worker a message right away, apologizing.
She replied that it was a wild night and not to worry.
I thought we were good, but I just heard that she is still mad at me. Everyone at work knows about it. What should I do?
-- Worried
Dear Worried: As the holiday party season approaches, let your question ring a cautionary note: The impact of behavior at office parties will outlast even the meanest hangover.
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