Overseas lover pressures woman for quick marriage
-- Wondering
Dear Wondering: Yep, you're good. Your guy seems to be dangling the prospect of him moving here and entering into a convenient marriage while you support him, as if it were a shiny bauble, instead of a very heavy lift.
Your reaction and plan of action is prudent, reasonable and responsible. Stick with it.
Dear Amy: My husband and I had best friends that we traveled with and attended many events with.
They questioned something my husband did, which they felt strongly about, and because of that, the friendship ended.
The husband of this couple has emailed us occasionally, wishing us a happy holiday, or asking a general question. My husband always replies.
I have written a letter, and sent emails requesting that we get together for dinner.
I don't expect that anyone should have to say they are sorry, but that we should all just be gracious and resume our lost connection.
Recently, my husband also requested a get-together. They responded that this would be a good idea after the holidays.
Well, summer is almost here, with no results.
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