Early abuse strains adult relationships
-- Displaced
Dear Displaced: You did exactly as you should have done. According to your account, you did not ask your friend to alter her behavior. You did not pitch a fit and complain about this disruption. You did not ask to join them.
You simply took care of your own needs. Good job.
Dear Amy: Thank you for encouraging "Concerned Daughter" to honestly disclose alcoholism in the family to her teenagers. This disclosure will be an important part of their education, about their family, and also about the potential dangers of alcohol use.
-- Alcoholic in the Family
Dear Family: Honesty and education can make a huge difference in the life of a young person with alcoholism in the family.
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