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Q: I take satisfaction in filling a number of important roles: husband, father, breadwinner, church leader, youth sports coach, etc. But I often feel like I'm running behind -- and I know my family suffers for it. How can I find a better life balance?

Jim: I think we're all busier than ever before. With work pressures, family responsibilities ...Read more

Q: In the not-too-distant future, I'm going to have to assume a large portion of care for my aging parents. What should I expect? And how do I know when to step in and take on personal responsibility for their physical well-being?

Jim: Aging and death are inescapable realities of life. As we grow older, our bodies go through a natural aging ...Read more

Q: My kids' friends are all excitedly talking about their families' summer vacation plans. Unfortunately, we're in a tight spot and can't do anything substantial. I know my children are disappointed. How can I make it up to them?

Jim: One of the best lessons I've ever learned about parenting happened when my now-adult sons were in elementary ...Read more

Q: Our daughter is about to graduate from high school. We're somewhat concerned that she doesn't seem to be overly enthusiastic about the values we've tried to teach her. This is discouraging to us as parents. Is it too late?

Jim: I'd say most parents struggle at some point with this kind of concern. Here's my advice: Be patient. You've planted...Read more

Q: I have a lot of bitterness about the way my parents treated me growing up. After all these years, I still struggle with negative feelings; all I remember is their harsh criticism, unloving attitude and generally dysfunctional parenting. But I'm really worried about how these memories might affect my relationship with my own kids. Help?!?

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