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Q: I've been a bit concerned recently about my kids' tendency toward self-centeredness. This Christmas season I'd like to encourage them to be more thoughtful and aware of the needs of others. Do you have any suggestions?

Jim: First off, I'd say you're halfway there, just by wanting to promote a lifestyle of selflessness with your children and ...Read more

Q: I'm a busy mom with young children. I have to take them with me when I go shopping -- but this time of year especially, sometimes they drive me crazy in the stores! Help!

Jim: Shopping with children, particularly during the busy Christmas season, can be either a fun time together or a frustrating experience -- sometimes both in the same ...Read more

Q: I'm sure we're like most parents -- we want our children to learn well and develop good character. We also want to protect them from ever getting hurt. There's so much pain in the world; I believe it's important to shield our kids as much as possible. But how can we accomplish that?

Jim: My answer might surprise you. I actually think the ...Read more

Q: This year we moved into a new (larger) house. So, for the first time at Thanksgiving and Christmas, the entire extended family will be under one roof: ours. How can we manage the stress of hosting?

Jim: The holiday season should be the most joyous time of the year -- but often it's the most stressful. I think a big reason is how we build up ...Read more

Q: My wife and I are committed to helping our kids explore their natural talents in sports, music, and other areas as they grow up. But every time we try something new, the kids seem to hate it. I'm perplexed -- what's the secret?

Jim: The first question to ask is a powerful one: "Who's more interested in this activity -- my child, or me?"

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