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Advice for the Surgeon General
Surgeon General Vivek Murthy has issued an advisory announcing something most of us suspected: Parenting is hard.
To ease the pain -- parents are woefully lonely, and about half report overwhelming daily stress versus 26% of nonparents -- Murthy endorses measures personal, political and workplace: more paid time off, more child care funding, ...Read more
Child Protective Services: Stop Hounding This British Star!
British TV personality Kirstie Allsopp let her 15-year-old go on a three-week train trip around Europe with a friend, age 16. Allsopp then published a proud, happy comment about it on X -- which has prompted an investigation by child protective services.
Last week, Allsopp wrote that, "My little boy has returned from 3 weeks inter-railing, he'...Read more
The Solomon of Divorce
"Relationships don't last anymore," observed comedian Rita Rudner. "When I meet a guy, the first question I ask myself is, 'Is this the man I want my children to spend their weekends with?'"
Great joke -- horrible reality. But a new solution is on the horizon. After years of research, writer/activist Emma Johnson has come up with the best ...Read more
Einstein, Where's My Pen?
Yeah, yeah, Einstein. Smart guy. This being summer, you see his face on T-shirts, sticking out his tongue, as if to say, "Ask the guy wearing this if he can explain fractions."
Props to Albert, who did figure out everything from relativity to atoms to E=MC2. But how come Mr. Genius never bothered to explain the deepest physics mystery of all:...Read more
How to Diversify Your Child's Potential
Investors are always told to "diversify" their portfolios. Don't put all your money in stocks -- what if the market plunges? But don't put all your money in bonds -- you'll miss the market rallies. And for God's sake, don't put all your money in one company.
Or, to put it an older way: Don't put all your eggs in one basket.
But when it comes ...Read more
Don't Kiss Every Boo-Boo
Yesterday I watched as two kids -- about 4 and 6 -- were trying to swing from the rings at the playground.
The older one, a girl, kept jumping to try to reach the rings. When that didn't work, she tried climbing up the structure to get to them. That didn't work either. She just could not reach.
Her brother, meanwhile, climbed up the other side...Read more
Overly Cautious or Overly Crazy?
"Soooooo, it happened. The police were called because my 8 year old was riding her bike on our street."
That's the email I got from Kay Eskridge, a Kentucky mom, former Child Protective Services worker, and fan of the Free-Range Kids movement. Over the years, she's written to me several times about our shared passion for childhood ...Read more
A Fun Way to Fight Childhood Anxiety
Wouldn't it be great if there was a new, fast, even cheerful way to fight the tide of anxiety engulfing this generation of kids?
It sure would. And darned if the latest Journal of Anxiety Disorders doesn't feature one. It's called independence therapy: having kids do new things, on their own, without their parents.
A pilot study conducted by...Read more