Ask Amy: Single man wants relatable advice
Dear Amy: I love your column and how you relate your own experience in your answers.
My question is one I have not seen particularly addressed.
I am a 58-year-old gay man and have identified as bi for most of my adulthood.
I have had significant relationships with both women and men.
After my last relationship, more than 15 years ago, I became unavailable and essentially asexual, barring a few random hook-ups with men.
I'm now feeling like I would like another significant relationship, but I feel like it needs to be with a man.
The "problem" is that I do not come across as gay to the general public.
Women hit on me all the time, but men seem to not realize I'm available or possibly interested.
As a contributing handicap, I am not attracted to most gay men.
How do I go about meeting potential mates without surprising, angering or terrifying the guys I'm attracted to?
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