Ask Amy: Single man wants relatable advice
We have been intimate a few times. Timothy has made it very clear that he's open and willing to "do it” again, anytime I want.
During our last visit Timothy talked about how attractive the women are at his workplace. He said he’s unsure if he could successfully compete with other men to ask them out.
Amy, this rubs me the wrong way, but I'm unsure how to talk to him about it.
Even though we are not “officially” together, I don’t feel comfortable that he is telling me that he wants other women, while also wanting me.
Am I overreacting?
Any suggestions would be appreciated.
– Midlife Lady
Dear Midlife Lady: You and “Timothy” are not “officially” together. You are not even unofficially together.
“I am willing to ‘do it’ again any time you want” conveys a willingness to have sex with you again if you’re into it and your schedules align.
While Timothy might believe that this is a generous statement, it is expressed with the same personal connection a person might have toward scheduling their next dental appointment. He has implied that he doesn’t have a chance with the attractive women at the office – but that’s where you come in!
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