Ask Amy: A woman with wheels wants to pay for travel
You are afraid of losing him. You are afraid of being hurt.
I would venture that both of these things are inevitable, because as you age the reality of loss grows closer.
You should talk to this man about your relationship. What does he want, and what do you want? Does he want to be in an exclusive relationship? Do you?
I’d offer one correction: You ask whether you should “stay and keep him happy.”
You should only stay in the relationship as long as it keeps you happy.
Dear Amy: Is there a new or substitute writer for your column?
The replies have become noticeably less angry, newly apolitical, and actually helpful and kind.
– Bob
Dear Bob: I am the only writer for this column, which I have been writing for 20 years now.
Thank you for delivering one of the most backhanded compliments I've ever received.
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