Ask Amy: Husband worries about in-law’s largesse
When you are with the parent and the teen, you can ask a question directly to the teen. When the parent jumps in, interrupt gently and say, “Hold on a minute – I’d love to hear [your child’s] answer.”
Dear Amy: “Estranged in-law” excessively worried that his young son would wonder why he didn’t have contact with his grandfather. Thank you for encouraging these two dads to give their child a simple and truthful answer.
Parents often hand their drama over to their children.
– Been There
Dear Been There: Children can understand that no two families are alike – and that’s OK!
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