Ask Amy: Mother-in-law’s rant requires apology
So far, my son has not replied; it’s been a week.
Any advice on how to reconnect with them?
– Upset MIL
Dear Upset: You should not wait for assurance that your apology will be accepted before offering one. Nor should you double down and place any blame on the person you’ve offended.
You should call your son and speak with him about this. Ask him to pass the phone to his wife. Your apology should be direct and sincere: “I am so sorry you overheard my harshness at Christmastime. I’ve been searching for ways to be closer to you, and this is definitely not the way to go about it. I’m very embarrassed and feel absolutely terrible about this. I hope you can forgive me.”
If you are unable to do this by phone, you should write directly to her.
Dear Amy: I have a blessed life.
My spouse and I have a wonderful relationship, I’m financially secure, and I enjoy going to work every day.
While it may not be truly idyllic, it’s pretty close.
One of my dear friend’s life is the complete opposite.
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