Ask Amy: Insurrectionists should be reported
Having a husband and a new baby has upped the ante for you. Your protective instincts have kicked in. Loving other living things reminds you of how precarious life is.
Address your thoughts directly. Make “friends” with your fear. Name it “Stan.”
When thoughts arise, say to yourself, “Not today, Stan. I’ve got things to do.”
Immediately and deliberately distract yourself. I suggest smelling the top of your baby’s head. This scent is a tonic, guaranteed to chase away all bad things.
Dear Amy: “Dog Worshipper” wanted your help in talking his parents into getting a dog.
I am a volunteer with Above and Beyond English Setter Rescue. After I read your answer to this boy (which was very good), I thought about suggesting that they sign up to foster.
Local shelters and mixed/all-breed rescues are always in need of foster homes. The rescue/shelter pays for vetting fees such as spay/neuter, heartworm treatment, and vaccines.
Fostering can be hard, but it can also be very rewarding, and it makes room for another dog at a shelter or to be helped by a rescue.
— Pat Nichols
Dear Pat: Fostering is a fantastic suggestion. Thank you!
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