Ask Amy: 'Green card' marriage worries friends
One way your husband might have of "addressing it" would be to not address it at all, but to basically ignore it and kick the emojis down the road, deciding to only address this if it recurs or seems to evolve into an inappropriate flirtation. Is this what he has decided to do? You could ask him.
In the meantime, I don't think you should worry about it.
Dear Amy: "Anonymous" wrote to you, complaining about her boyfriend, who didn't want his photo posted on her Instagram account.
Every single thing about this letter screamed "narcissist." Thank you for calling her out about her need to violate his privacy for her own bragging rights.
-- Fed Up
Dear Fed Up: What "Anonymous" didn't seem to realize is that she can actually have this both ways. She can enjoy her curated Instagram life, and she can enjoy the relationship with her boyfriend. She just can't do both things on the same channel.
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