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You know the dynamic in your household, and if your son is interested in this mainly to bug his sister, then you should encourage him to pursue something else.
Otherwise, yes, I believe you should let your son join this theater group. Tell your daughter that -- if he's interested -- he deserves to pursue this, and that you are going to let him give it a try.
Unlike in sports, where a five-year age difference would put the children on different teams, these two are likely to perform in productions together. I encourage families to get their kids involved in theater because the sense of community and togetherness in performing encourages pro-social behavior.
Once Annie adjusts to this, it could be a bonding experience for both.
I assume Annie will find a way to discourage her little brother from close contact during rehearsals, but you should caution your son to give his sister plenty of space. She is not going to want to hang out with him.
Dear Amy: I'm responding to "Grounded," whose retired husband was spending their money traveling while she worked.
When someone asked me why I didn't accompany my husband on his "vacations," I simply told them that one of us had to be the responsible adult.
Pointed yes, but it answered the question without having to say much more.
-- Elsie
Dear Elsie: Yep, that covers it nicely.
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