Late arrivers don't get to sulk in the kitchen
I'm not sure why you would share your reasonable concerns regarding your co-worker's performance at work with me, rather than with him.
His supervisor should speak with him, be completely frank about his job performance, and suggest strongly that his job will be in jeopardy if he doesn't step up.
Your co-worker's financial issues outside of work should remain his business.
Dear Amy: You recently responded to a letter from someone who complained about others "vaping weed" in a restaurant. The letter writer (and you) seemed to assume that weed had a distinctive smell when it is vaped. It does not.
Maybe everybody should mind their own business -- and you should do your research!
-- Upset
Dear Upset: I have vaped nicotine and know it does not have an odor.
To research this question, I consulted various vaping message boards, many of which noted that vaping weed DOES have a distinct odor.
Regardless, no vaping of any kind should occur in a restaurant.
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