Dating app connection kills romance
I do love her but I don't like the situation -- or being lied to -- and I have told her this.
She came back this last weekend and spent two nights with me. It was like she was back here for good!
We said we were going to live our lives in our respective cities, and in three months she would know whether or not she was coming back to me.
I have talked to other girls and gone out to dinner with one, but I don't want to lose this girl. I told her I feel like I' m "Plan B."
I do not know what to do.
-- Unsure
Dear Unsure: Well, romance is officially dead. And you two killed it.
Look at how you met. She wanted to have sex with someone because she had a few weeks to kill. You were like... "uh, OK."
The way you describe your relationship, she does as she pleases, you register your disappointment and she ups the ante by demanding more from you.
She showed you who she was at your very first meeting. You had all of the information you needed to have before you ever slept together. Now all you need to do is believe it.
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