Couple resists pressure to attend family wedding
If the dog seems well-adjusted to both households, your friend might opt for a sort of joint custody arrangement, where you have the dog during times when she is away, and visa-versa.
Dear Amy: I am concerned about your advice to "Working on it in the Midwest," who wanted to make amends for a drunken sexual assault he committed in college. I couldn't believe that you actually suggested he should turn himself into police!
I am a lawyer. He could be facing years of jail time! You should have suggested he seek legal counsel before following your terrible advice!
-- Concerned
Dear Concerned: In my answer, I wrote: "Are you prepared to face the possible legal consequences (including being charged with a crime and/or sued) for admitting guilt for what you've done?"
I intended that as a (perhaps too subtle) suggestion for him to do his due diligence and understand all of the consequences.
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