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Ironman journey in ‘Racing Against Time’ redefines midlife
A spirited memoir that proves you can redefine yourself at any age, Jeffrey Weiss’s "Racing Against Time: On Ironman, Ultramarathons and the Quest for Transformation in Mid-Life" takes readers on an empowering ride.
Weiss is nearly eleven hours into an ultramarathon, his legs cramping as he fights to keep moving. This visceral opening throws ...Read more
'Crazy': Reclaiming life from the shadow of traumatic memory
In "Crazy: Reclaiming Life from the Shadow of Traumatic Memory," author Lyn Barrett shatters misconceptions by offering a deeply personal, first-hand account of living with DID and healing from the trauma that caused it. This award-winning memoir invites readers into Barrett’s world, demystifying a disorder too often sensationalized and ...Read more
Freida McFadden’s 'Dear Debbie' is a sinister delight
Freida McFadden’s latest psychological thriller is fiendishly clever and gripping in its narrative, revolving around Debbie Mullen and her family. Debbie is an advice columnist for the local newspaper, where she regularly offers advice for stressed wives and mothers. She may need some advice on her domestic situation, as her home is filled ...Read more
What To Do When Adult Children Go No-Contact
Q: Several years ago our daughter-in-law severed all contact with us, and we've had little contact since with our son or her. We've asked them many times to tell us how we've wronged them so we can make amends and maintain relationship, but there has been no response. What can we do?
Jim: My heart goes out to you. It could have been something ...Read more
Kids Play Soccer, Child and Family Services Is Called
"Child-on-child aggression" is how child protective services categorized the incident -- and why they decided to investigate. What the heck had happened?
As Park City, Utah, teacher Heather Bryant explained in a piece she wrote for her local paper, the Park Record, her kids -- 12, 8 and 5 at the time -- were playing a game of pickup soccer in...Read more
South Carolina anti-abortion activist raises 'stand your ground' defense in clinic shooting
COLUMBIA, S.C. — An anti-abortion group founder and activist has asked a judge to dismiss charges connected to a shooting at a Columbia Planned Parenthood clinic last November, according to court documents.
On Jan. 12, attorneys for Mark Baumgartner filed a motion to dismiss charges against their client based on South Carolina’s “Stand ...Read more
Family guide to new movie releases
'SEND HELP'
Rated R for strong/bloody violence and language.
What it’s about: A gonzo survivalist horror comedy from Sam Raimi sees a mousy corporate cog stranded on an island with her boss, where the power dynamic instantly flips.
The kid attractor factor: This is not for kids. Too bloody and violent.
Good lessons/bad lessons: Be careful ...Read more
How to talk to kids about ICE
MINNEAPOLIS — Many families with children who could be directly affected by Immigration Customs Enforcement operations have been talking about the subject for weeks. Families who have not been impacted may not have discussed the subject, or know what to say. But all children have questions.
Katie Lingras, a child psychologist at the ...Read more
Ex-etiquette: A valentine for my ex?
Q: Should I give my ex a valentine to entice him back?
A: When you ask this question, you're not really asking about a card. You're asking whether it's OK to reopen a door that has already been closed, and whether doing so will make you feel more at ease, more connected or less alone.
It's doubtful, at least not in the long run.
Valentine's ...Read more
Lori Borgman: How's my driving? Don't ask!
Three of our grands have their learner's permits, but somehow, I seem to be the one receiving instructions on how to drive.
“You probably should have waited ‘til that car passed,” advises our oldest daughter, as I pull into traffic. She’s my front seat passenger and mother of twins with permits.
“Excuse me? I pulled out just fine, ...Read more
Revisiting post-war America in 'One of Them'
Kitty Zeldis is a prolific author and gifted storyteller who ably captures the zeitgeist of the time period immediately following WWII in her well-crafted novel "One of Them" which focuses on two college girls struggling with identity and discrimination.
It’s an unusual coming of age story involving antisemitism in Ivy League universities ...Read more
'Mama, I Love You' celebrates love, gratitude and growing together
A stunning motivational read, "Mama, I Love You" by Mona Liza Santos offers inspiration for mother-child activities, gratitude for mom, and a loving tribute. The story begins with a simple reminder to “mama” that she’s loved every day, which is a sweet sentiment that is repeated throughout the book.
The story is structured as a message to...Read more
Single Woman Wonders About Making A Will
Q: I'm a single woman. I've been wondering if I should have a will and/or estate plan. Is this something I should be concerned about?
Jim: I'd say: it depends. Under most circumstances it's advisable for anyone to have a will, but the precise course of action you should follow will be determined by the specifics of your situation.
For instance...Read more
Meeting of the Minds: How Do We Tell The Emperor He's Not Wearing Any Clothes?
MIKE: I hereby call to order the first annual meeting of the tripartite national commission to discuss with the emperor his recent garment shortage.
As you all know, of late, the emperor has been a bit, let's say, confused and has on one or two occasions, only, but still, he's appeared to have ventured out of doors ... inappropriately attired...Read more
Mom Found Guilty of Letting Son Have Fun
Atlanta mom Mallerie Shirley loves seeing her son get himself around their kid-friendly neighborhood. So on Election Day last year, with the schools closed, of course she let him ride his scooter to the playground.
But as he scooted along the bike trail just outside his house, a lady approached and started asking him questions, including where ...Read more
Family guide to new movie releases
'MERCY'
Rated PG-13 for violence, bloody images, some strong language, drug content and teen smoking.
What it’s about: A Los Angeles detective finds himself at the mercy of an AI judge, jury and executioner when he's accused of murdering his wife. He has 90 minutes to prove his innocence.
The kid attractor factor: This action thriller is ...Read more
Ex-etiquette: Disciplining kids together
Q: My son's father and I actually get along pretty well. When our son cut his last class at school and was caught skateboarding at the park, I told him I was calling his dad. He begged me not to, but I called anyway and let his father yell at him on the spot. It definitely got his attention. Wasn't that good ex-etiquette?
A: In essence it was ...Read more
Lori Borgman: It's winter--weather you like it or not
You know winter is knocking on the door when the go-to topic of every conversation is windchill. You know winter has moved in and made itself at home when the house settles with loud cracks, the hardwoods creak and kitchen cabinets along an outside wall have the interior temperature of a cave. Winter soon becomes an uninvited houseguest with no ...Read more
American Gothic thriller has Celtic roots
In a cabin in upstate New York’s frigid wilderness, a hungry woman waits for her husband to return from hunting. She remembers the tenement they left in Dublin, filled with friends and warmth. Now they struggle for survival alone.
Just as troubling to Moira Kelly is the strange behavior of her three-year-old daughter, Eve. Moira has seen Eve ...Read more
7 fantastical journeys that rip you out of reality in the best way
If there’s one thing I love, it’s a book that yanks me straight into another world like it has zero regard for my to-do list. Give me magic. Give me danger. Give me the kind of quest where a kid with more heart than experience has to figure out who they are before the world explodes — or, you know, before a wyvern eats them. These are the ...Read more



























