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Ex-etiquette: Painful custody dispute over grandchild

Parents / Family Living /

Q. My daughter has had her daughter removed from her care because of some bad choices she made in the past, but the truth was she was an unfit parent. Child Protective Services placed the child with me and suggested I apply for guardianship. I did take the child, but I never officially applied. My daughter has been combative and angry since the ...Read more

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Job or kids? One in three working moms forced to choose as pandemic enters Year Two

Parents / Mom's Advice /

After 15 years in a high-paying finance job, Joanna Lepore knew she'd have to quit, for a once-unthinkable reason — she has children.

"I never had any intention of leaving my job," said the married mother of two kids under 10 years of age living in Haddonfield, Pa. But working remotely — while home-schooling her son and watching her toddler...Read more

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Lori Borgman: Making your own syrup is sticky business

Parents / Mom's Advice /

Three hundred and sixty-five gallons of milk, 300 pounds of flour and 13 gallons of syrup is not a load for a wagon train reenactment, but the tallies some of the grandkids came up with after calculating what their large family uses in one year.

It was the syrup consumption that jolted this big-city-turned-country wing of the family into taking...Read more

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Living with Children: Are continued tantrums sign of something more?

Parents / Parenting News /

Q: My 5-year-old continues to throw tantrums when he doesn’t get his way. His father and I are divorced. I have primary custody. He is with his dad every other weekend, basically. My ex has very poor emotional control and I’m concerned that our son may have inherited that from him. When he throws a tantrum, I make him sit in a “tantrum ...Read more

Brighter Days: 5 Top Tips to Minimize Pregnancy Swelling

Parents / Brighter Days /

Remember your ankles? Even if you could bend down to look at your ankles, they might be so swollen you wouldn't want to. Swelling is very common in pregnancy, especially toward the end. To meet the needs of your developing baby, your body produces approximately 50% more blood and body fluids. All of this extra blood and fluid causes swelling. ...Read more

A pregnancy brings life into focus for St. Louis couple during pandemic

Parents / Parenting News /

ST. LOUIS — It was late April, about a month into the COVID-19 pandemic, when Christina Lee Sterling was laid off from her job as a corporate lawyer.

"We were pretty panicked generally, and then we found out we were pregnant," she said. "It was a mix of complete elation and total stress and anxiety."

Lee Sterling, 34, had been furloughed ...Read more

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She lost 3 loves ones to COVID-19. Now this Black pastor is on the front lines of vaccination effort

Parents / Mom's Advice /

HARTFORD, Conn. – Her aunt was the first to fall ill with the coronavirus, dying in a nursing home during those chaotic early days of the pandemic.

Months later, her father got sick. He suffered from underlying respiratory issues, and his decline was swift: Death came on Jan. 18, Martin Luther King Jr.’s birthday. Her uncle died a week ...Read more

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Rural parents facing child care deserts as pandemic makes bad situation worse

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ST. CLOUD, Minn. – Finding a new child care provider has become a frustrating routine for middle school teacher Megan Dolan.

"He's on his third daycare in less than a year," said Dolan, 29, who lives outside of Becker with her husband.

After their 2-year-old son's child care provider closed in May, they found another in-home daycare about a ...Read more

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COVID-19 put a 21-year-old on a respirator. Then she gave birth

Parents / Mom's Advice /

TAMPA, Fla. – Alexia Khammanivong did not know she had given birth.

She didn’t know that minutes before, she’d been flying over Tampa Bay in a helicopter at 120 miles per hour.

She didn’t know Kyrie weighed 3 pounds, 9 ounces, or that he, like her, was breathing through the help of a ventilator.

She’d been sedated and placed on the ...Read more

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Parents organize their own prom. The tagline? 'A little party never killed nobody'

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A flyer for an Idaho high school's prom began making the rounds on social media last week.

Melba Junior-Senior High School isn't hosting an official prom this spring due to the COVID-19 pandemic. But a group of parents decided to host a prom of their own for Melba students.

The tagline? "A Little Party Never Killed Nobody."

Melba parent ...Read more

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Elizabeth Wellington: Pandemic trauma affects our memory. Here's how to be intentional about the way we tell the story of this year

Parents / Mom's Advice /

I wonder the things I'll tell a young person about this year under the pandemic, when I become an elder.

Will working for home be the center of my coronavirus tale? Will I recall the nights I spent praying to God to heal my brother-in-law from his brush with the virus and spare my sister and her children from contracting it? (Everyone is fine.)...Read more

Adult Son Moves In With Parents

Parents / Focus on the Family /

Q: Our 23-year-old son is living with us again. We also have young teens in the house. We know we should treat our adult son differently in terms of rules and expectations, but we're concerned about how this might affect the younger kids. Help!

Jim: Many families are facing similar situations these days. Even though you're still his parents, ...Read more

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Vice President Harris to speak at Nickelodeon's Kids' Choice Awards

Parents / Parenting News /

Vice President Kamala Harris will deliver special remarks at the Kids’ Choice Awards this weekend, Nickelodeon announced Friday.

The former California senator, who is the first woman and the first person of color to serve as vice president, is set to appear during the show’s Generation Change presentation — an initiative that recognizes ...Read more

Kids Under Surveillance

Parents / Lenore Skanazy /

Students at 11 Chinese schools (so far) are required to wear "smart" uniforms that track their every move.

Thanks to chips sewn into the uniforms' shoulders, the school can record the exact time a child enters and leaves the school.

If the kid skips a class, his parents and teachers are notified. If he leaves the class without permission, ...Read more

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Moms drop out of work most in states where kids learn from home

Parents / Mom's Advice /

Women have dropped out of the U.S. workforce at a faster pace in states where most students are learning from home, risking a reversal of decades of gendered advancement.

Before the pandemic, the participation rate of mothers in the labor force was about 18 percentage points lower than fathers’. From 2019 to 2020, the gap widened by 5 points ...Read more

Brighter Days: Top Tips for Napping on the Go

Parents / Brighter Days /

During this pandemic, "on the go" has really taken on new meaning, and sometimes, a new sense of necessity. We can have so many things delivered, yet we still do need to get out -- sometimes to pick up things that can't be delivered and other times because we simply need to get out of our homes!

Moms are expert multitaskers. So, it might make ...Read more

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'Addicted' to smart phones

Parents / John Rosemond /

Concerning my prior use of the word “addiction” in association with smart phones and children (including teens), some people think I am speaking figuratively. To set the record straight: No, I am speaking quite literally.

When the addiction in question is to a substance, as in an opiate, there is both a psychological and physical component....Read more

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Kids call 'em like they see 'em

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One of the great things about young children is their ability to see the world through unvarnished eyes. They call 'em like they see 'em with no holding back.

Our eldest daughter was given a handmade card from her youngest saying how much she loved Mommy. Mommy told the little one that she was going to keep the card forever, to which an older ...Read more

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Ex-etiquette: Banned over her drinking

Parents / Family Living /

Q. I have been living with my boyfriend for 3 years. He has two adult children from a previous marriage. His adult daughter who is married with two children, ages 6 and 8, is turning 30 and they are all going away for the weekend to celebrate. I am not invited. They say it is because I have had too much to drink on previous occasions and it ...Read more

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7 novels that explore the lives of women in Middle Eastern cultures

Parents / Mom's Advice /

Every region of the world has its own set of trials and triumphs, and if you’re going to learn about another culture, the best place to start is by listening to those who have lived it. Fiction, in many respects, is the perfect portal to take you to new times and places, but it also provides the unique opportunity to meet individual characters...Read more