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Ex-etiquette: Alienating our son?
Q. When I got a divorced, I moved to another town with my now-9-year-old son. His father continues to live in our family home and maintain the same friends, which includes my best friend and her husband who also have a son my son’s age. They are best friends, too. When my son visits his father, he wants to play with his old friend, but when my...Read more
Lori Borgman: Home-schooling grandparents need schooling
Against our daughter’s better judgment, she sometimes asks if we can homeschool her youngest when she has a scheduling conflict.
Her concern is not that we don’t cover the material; her concern is that we modify and augment the material or sometimes deviate entirely from the material.
We call it enrichment.
The last time our student was ...Read more
California sends $90 million to Planned Parenthood
Just over four months after Planned Parenthood affiliates were defunded by the Trump administration, California injected another $90 million lifeline in “reproductive healthcare” grants to the state’s seven affiliates — among the largest in the United States.
The latest funding comes as a result of legislation, Senate Bill 106, passed ...Read more
'Fighting Back' traces one pilot’s journey from Bronx childhood to the birth of the Israeli Air Force
Stan Andrews begins life as Stan Anekstein, the son of Jewish immigrants in the Bronx. He loves drawing. He loves movies. He wants a wider life than the one he sees on his block. The authors show how this restless kid becomes a gifted pilot in the US Army Air Corps, flying more than forty combat missions in the Pacific during World War II. Those...Read more
Queer Gothic reads where power, desire and dark secrets refuse to stay buried
Queer Gothic fiction is dangerous in the best way: it whispers, it seduces, it drags you into dark hallways where desire hides in shadow and power shifts with every glance. The following novels are about women, outsiders and anyone daring enough to claim a voice in worlds built to silence them.
If you want stories that haunt, thrill and make ...Read more
Spouse Seeks Stability After Loved One's Death
Q: My husband recently passed away after a long battle with health issues. My entire identity had become wrapped up in caring for him. Now that the struggle is over, I feel empty and lost as well as grieved. I honestly don't know where to turn or what to do next.
Jim: My heart goes out to you. The death of any loved one is difficult, especially...Read more
Plant in Your Own Life and We All Reap the Rewards
There's a 36-year-old song that talks about the value of hard work.
"I gotta get out of bed and get a hammer and a nail," the chorus goes, "Learn how to use my hands, not just my head. I think myself into jail. Now, I know a refuge never grows from a chin in a hand in a thoughtful pose. Gotta tend the earth if you want a rose."
I've been ...Read more
Treating 6-Year-Olds Like Infants
A 6-year-old rode off on his bike and stayed out for two hours without his parents knowing where he was.
That would have had me very worried! But when a mom asked Slate for advice on how to deal with this situation -- and with her husband saying this was no big deal, as he used to ride his bike at that age -- the advice-giver, Logan Sachon, ...Read more
Gov. Gavin Newsom approves $90 million for Planned Parenthood
Gov. Gavin Newsom signed a bill on Wednesday to provide $90 million to Planned Parenthood, a move intended to help offset the losses from recent federal cuts targeting abortion providers.
"These cuts were designed to attack and assault Planned Parenthood," said Newsom, speaking at a news conference near the Capitol. "They were not abortion cuts...Read more
Family guide to new movie releases
'CRIME 101'
Rated R for language throughout, some violence and sexual material/nudity.
What it’s about: A perfectionist jewel thief in Los Angeles has his best laid plans turned to chaos with a new robber in town and an obsessive cop on his tail.
The kid attractor factor: This is an adult drama, not much appeal for kids.
Good lessons/bad ...Read more
Ex-etiquette: Getting to the truth
Q: My child comes home from her other parent's house with stories that sound absolutely ridiculous. I don't want to dismiss what she tells me, but I also don't know what's true, what's exaggerated and what might be made-up. How am I supposed to sort through that without overreacting? What's good ex-etiquette here?
A: When children live in two ...Read more
Lori Borgman: Open-and-shut case for burping the house
I was puzzled when the husband announced he was going to burp the house. I asked if he thought it would need a diaper change, too.
“You know, burp the house,” he said with an air of disbelief.
I didn’t know. I couldn’t get my head around patting a two-story house on the back.
He said burping a house is based on the German practice of ...Read more
California lawmakers send $90 million grant package for Planned Parenthood clinics to Newsom
SACRAMENTO, Calif. — Both chambers of the California Legislature voted Monday to send a $90 million grant package for women’s health clinics to Gov. Gavin Newsom’s desk, moving quickly to shore up the state’s reproductive health programs against cuts pushed by President Donald Trump’s administration.
Assembly and Senate Democrats ...Read more
'Bad Baby' launches a high-octane new thriller series
"Bad Baby" is the first book of a thrilling new series by author Stephen Martin. It opens when the brothers John and Merlin Cooper were in their teens living in a farm in Florida when they receive the news about their father’s death. This happened in the year 2001, specifically, that other day that will leave in infamy for Americans. However, ...Read more
Gripping debut explores a lie, a fire and the search for safety
Brandon M. Rogers’ debut novel, "The Safe Place," follows Tristan, a man whose polished life hides secrets, unresolved grief and a lie that began when he was 6. The story begins in New York City, with Tristan newly married to Jocelyn and already slipping back into old patterns — long nights, pills, avoidance. A medical crisis lands him in a ...Read more
Her adult autistic son was kicked off a cruise ship. Now this mom is on a mission to better awareness
While preparing her four sons to take a dream family vacation in the Caribbean last month, Carolyn Piro carefully reviewed every detail to get them ready.
She also contacted the Royal Caribbean cruise line about accommodations for her children, because her oldest, Sean Curran, has autism, and two other sons also have developmental disabilities....Read more
Husband Seeks Help Making Amends
Q: I'm ashamed to say that I've done and said some hurtful things to my wife over the past couple of years. She's withdrawn from me emotionally, and I'm not sure how to convince her I've changed. How can I get her to forgive me?
Jim: Our own pride can often be the biggest hurdle in these situations -- so humbling yourself and acknowledging your...Read more
'Once Upon a Time' Is a Place We Can Find Again
"Where is the good news?" my son asked the other day, the kind of simple question that can only come from a child.
Obvious, sensical, trusting.
He still believes in our essential goodness and still wants to know about humanity's small kindnesses and large achievements.
We had been talking about doomscrolling on the way to school, our very ...Read more
Family guide to new movie releases
'PILLION'
No MPA rating
What it’s about: A young man finds himself in the thrall of a mysterious biker as they enter into a dominant/submissive relationship.
The kid attractor factor: This is a very mature and sexually explicit drama — not for kids and not much appeal for them.
Good lessons/bad lessons: Lessons in self-exploration can be...Read more
Ex-etiquette: Sad at Valentine's Day
Q. My recent breakup was a big one. I spend most of my time trying not to let the kids see how broken-up I am that their mother left. Valentine's Day is right around the corner and they're buzzing about it. The teacher is bringing in special treats, they're talking about exchanging cards, and the house feels full of electricity. I'm doing my ...Read more
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