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Lori Borgman: 11 reasons to not clean my desk drawer

Parents / Mom's Advice /

My desk drawer is a mess. It’s always a mess. Even after I tidy it up, it reverts to a mess as soon as I close the drawer.

I think it’s because I do things quickly. I move fast and mess things up fast. But even if I slowed down, it would still be a mess, just a mess on slow bake.

My desk is considered communal property in that it sits in ...Read more

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Ex-etiquette: Emotional artifacts

Parents / Family Living /

Q. My girlfriend and I are moving in together, and while cleaning out her garage, I found a box of photos of her with other guys — except most of the guys are cut out, so it’s basically her with a random torso on a boat, her with a random torso skiing... Do I say something? What’s good ex-etiquette?

A. Ah, the archaeological dig of a ...Read more

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Dark slow-burn romance explores trauma, trust and the complicated ties that bind

Parents / Mom's Advice /

Some romances race toward the first kiss. "Only the Small Bones" by C.P. Harris takes the longer road — the one lined with rules that exist for a reason. Do not touch. Do not push. Do not demand words that will not come. Harris opens her tale with urgency, then settles into something more intimate: the hours after crisis, the strange quiet ...Read more

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Offering clear-eyed hope on infertility’s hardest days

Parents / Mom's Advice /

There is a particular silence that follows a fertility appointment. It sits in the car between two people who don’t know what to say. It hums in the background of baby showers and holiday dinners. It lingers in the two-week wait, in the clinic portal notification, in the careful recalculating of hope.

"When Waiting Becomes Life: Encouraging ...Read more

How To Handle Critical Comments

Parents / Focus on the Family /

Q: I'm a divorced dad with joint custody of my daughter. When she came to my place last weekend, she told me that my ex-wife has been making some very critical and unkind statements about me. Do you have any advice for handling this situation?

Jim: First, I'd say don't jump to conclusions just yet. Some children are capable of exaggerating or ...Read more

What Has Passed is Not Always What Was Best

Parents / Georgia Garvey /

Your memories will try to trick you.

I thought about that as I was driving down a street near my house the other day, when I spotted a father walking down the sidewalk, his young daughter slung over his shoulder like a sack of coal he was hauling out of a mine. Her hair bounced along on his back and she looked thrilled. They had been out on a...Read more

Graduates, Follow Your (Fill in the Blank)

Parents / Lenore Skenazy /

Note to Grads: Fill in the parentheses and you can skip the big speech. It's all here!

Greetings, students, parents, deans, professors and especially our esteemed mascot (name of fish), who so aptly represents our student body -- and with whom I have a date later tonight. I just hope that's not a costume!

It is an honor to (verb) before you....Read more

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Family guide to new movie releases

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'NORMAL'

Rated R for strong bloody violence, and language.

What it’s about: An interim sheriff discovers a small Minnesota town's violent secret.

The kid attractor factor: This is an action comedy — not for kids.

Good lessons/bad lessons: Never use loaded weapons as decor.

Violence: Extreme bloody violence throughout, shooting, ...Read more

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Lori Borgman: Dirty car drives her crazy

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I love a clean car — no trash on the floor, no empty plastic water bottles rolling around, no fossilized fries smashed into floor mats. A clean car makes me happy.

Sometimes, if the car is clean on the inside and the outside, I’m so happy I throw it in park at red lights and car dance like crazy.

Not really. But I’m car dancing on the ...Read more

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Ex-etiquette: Conflict with grieving grandmother

Parents / Family Living /

Q. I just got married to a man with three children. Their mother died two years ago, and we have bonded quite well. Problem is the kids' grandmother -- the children's mother's mother -- seems very jealous and undermines things that I do. She will make appointments for outings directly with the kids that I know nothing about. Or she will show up ...Read more

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'So Old, So Young': A nostalgic masterpiece

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In his newest novel, Grant Ginder gives the perfect read for 20-somethings, 30-somethings and beyond, and proves to us that friendships may come and go, but the memories never will.

"So Old, So Young" follows a group of six friends over 20 years, as the real world intervenes, adulthood beckons and they struggle to maintain their relationships ...Read more

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A practical guide to staying alert in an unpredictable world

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"Look Twice: Your Guide to Staying Safe in an Unsafe World, Volume I" lands in a steady, practical place. Tim Beard writes like someone who has spent years thinking about risk and then came home to translate that mindset for ordinary life. The result feels less like a lecture and more like a field manual you can carry into Monday morning.

This ...Read more

Parent Seeks Advice On Helping Shy Son

Parents / Focus on the Family /

Q: My 15-year-old son is very shy and nervous around girls his age. I'm looking for ways to give him a boost in this area. Any suggestions for making him feel more confident in mixed company?

Jim: Realistically, millions of 15-year-old boys are nervous around girls! So, this is a very common situation.

I think most of us can remember how ...Read more

Jesus of Nazareth visits the Pentagon

Parents / Georgia Garvey /

PENTAGON FRONT DESK: Hello. Can I help you?

JESUS OF NAZARETH: Hello, my child. I am Jesus of Nazareth, here for my 10:30 appointment with Elbridge Colby, the undersecretary of defense.

FRONT DESK: OK, sure. Hold on a second. He's just finishing up with someone right now.

(Out walks Mother Teresa. The door slams behind her.)

COLBY, FROM ...Read more

Don't Let Summer Be a Bummer!

Parents / Lenore Skenazy /

If you're a parent, it's time to think summer safety ... even though it's only spring. That's safety tip No. 1: Plan ahead!

Summer safety starts at home and sometimes doesn't leave it for days at a time because, face it, it's just not safe out there. Especially in the summer!

But you can outsmart that sizzling season with these helpful tips ...Read more

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Family guide to new movie releases

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'YOU, ME & TUSCANY'

Rated PG-13 for some strong language, and sexual material.

What it’s about: A young American woman goes on a spontaneous trip to Italy and falls in love, after many misunderstandings

The kid attractor factor: This rom-com appeals to older audiences, but maybe some appeal for teens.

Good lessons/bad lessons: Book the ...Read more

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Ex-etiquette: The call cannot be completed without your help

Parents / Family Living /

Q. My ex wants me to give him my friends’ phone numbers so he can call them and arrange playdates with their children when my son is with him. You don’t give people’s phone numbers out without asking them first, and these are my friends. I feel uncomfortable sharing their information, but he says I’m being difficult and preventing our ...Read more

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Lori Borgman: Hey doc, the pain is worst in my wallet

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A document detailing our health care expenditures just arrived in the mail.

“Shocking,” I said.

“You mean the cost of health care?” the husband asked.

“No — documentation that we are officially fixer-uppers.”

There it was, right before our eyes. Three months of physical therapy for a back injury from crawling into the far back ...Read more

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'Pinky Swear,' broken trust

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""Pinky Swear" is another well-crafted story that will have readers on edge as we follow a mother desperately seeking her missing friend and her unborn child."

A baby’s on the way, but the mother goes missing…

Have you ever broken a promise? How about a pinky swear? Alexandra “Lexie” McNeil can’t have children of her own, to the ...Read more

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Trapped at sea: Survival and hard choices in Will Dean’s 'Adrift'

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Life is full of choices. A simple twist of fate can send someone towards a winning lottery ticket or into a life filled with fear, confusion and sadness. Life choices can also be a breeding ground for resilience and determination. In the new novel, "Adrift" by author Will Dean, Peggy Jenkins and her son Samson, struggle to make good life choices...Read more

 

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