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Active bystandership: The small acts of courage that make a big difference
Why do some people step in when something is wrong, while others stay quiet?
It’s a question without an easy answer, but it sits at the heart of Ervin Staub’s "Evil, Goodness, and Creating Active Bystandership." And for Staub, it’s not just theoretical. It’s personal.
As a Jewish child in Hungary during World War II, Staub survived the...Read more
How far would you go for humanity?
What would you give to be a part of history? What would you trade for the good of humanity? In a contemplative journey across space and time, "Celestial Lights" poses these questions and offers a reminder that some things aren’t worth sacrificing. Author Cecile Pin crafts a story that is both touching and tragic and that examines the personal ...Read more
Teen Years Bring New Dynamics To Adoptive Family
Q: We adopted our teenage son at his birth and we've never hidden that fact from him. But recently he's become almost obsessed with the topic -- and especially his birth parents (who unfortunately did not maintain contact). If he gets upset he shouts that we aren't his "real" mom and dad. This is devastating to us; we love him so much and want ...Read more
Family guide to new movie releases
'PRESSURE'
Rated PG-13 for war violence, bloody images, some strong language, and smoking.
What it’s about: Details the tense days before D-Day when General Dwight D. Eisenhower and Scottish meteorologist James Stagg tried to accurately forecast the weather in order to ensure the invasion's success.
The kid attractor factor: This is more of...Read more
Commentary: Consider reconnecting with family. Here's how
Americans were forecast to spend a record $38 billion on Mother’s Day and $24 billion on Father’s Day gifts this year, but they can be difficult holidays for adult children given the estrangement epidemic. Just ask Britney Spears, Prince Harry, Shiloh Jolie or any number of average folks: A YouGov poll showed 38% of U.S. adults refused ...Read more
Lori Borgman: A good day to talk baseball
There’s a good chance the husband has his Cincinnati Reds ball cap surgically attached to his head. It’s that time of year.
We were in the quaint historic river town of St. Charles, Missouri, leaving a sidewalk café, when a voice yells, “PETE ROSE, JOE MORGAN, JOHNNY BENCH!”
It came from an older man, wearing a red St. Louis Cardinals...Read more
Ex-etiquette: Slow down
Q. My kid’s mom and I share our children’s time equally. My partner wants us to live together, but we’ve only been dating for six months, and I have two kids who love their mom. I’m afraid it will be confusing to live with two different women in the same role. What’s good ex-etiquette?
Answer: Slow down.
Not because your relationship...Read more
The greatest art heist in history — and the secret it may still be hiding
Among the many treasures of Saint Bavo’s Cathedral in Ghent, Belgium, is a massive altarpiece painted by the Renaissance artist Jan van Eyck. Its many panels depict an array of biblical figures, saints, martyrs, soldiers, prophets, clergy, angels and other figures attending a pastoral scene at the center, where the Lamb of God bleeds from a ...Read more
Dark magic and inner demons collide in spellbinding 'Only Spell Deep'
Supernatural themes underscore many of the current wave of popular novels. The idea that there are forces beyond our control is enticing to many readers. The new novel from Ava Morgyn, "Only Spell Deep," finds a place in the world of the supernatural that will entice readers to follow along with Jude, a witch who has left a coven, as she ...Read more
Strategies For Prioritizing Family Meals
Q: How can we make family meals a priority when we're all so busy? Our schedules are nuts. Whether I'm working from home or go to the office, I often don't finish until at least 6 p.m. Then I have to fix dinner while the hungry crew waits impatiently -- or just does their own thing.
Jim: Let's start by acknowledging that as a working mom with a...Read more
Taps for the Tap?
'Tis the season for reminders to hydrate. As if nature had never invented a way to keep us from shriveling into human raisins -- and not even the plump, juicy ones. Hard, dry, olive-pit-like raisins that insert themselves into your molars and make themselves so at home, no water flosser dares dislodge them.
A teacher once told me that parents ...Read more
Family guide to new movie releases
"STAR WARS: THE MANDALORIAN AND GROGU"
Rated PG-13 for sci-fi violence and action.
What it’s about: Bounty hunter the Mandalorian and his sidekick Grogu round up rogue Imperial leaders and find themselves on a mission to rescue the son of Jabba the Hutt.
The kid attractor factor: Baby Yoda (Grogu) of course! Kids will be drawn to this ...Read more
What it takes to celebrate a last birthday
ST. LOUIS — I showed up at the airport at 5 a.m. with a birthday wish.
One of my sisters has worked for an airline for nearly 30 years. A perk of the job allows her to share a buddy pass with a family member or friend willing to try for a standby seat on a flight. It costs a fraction of what I normally pay for an advance purchase fare.
I don...Read more
Ex-etiquette: Crossing a boundary
Q. My ex showed up at my birthday party with roses and wanting to get back together. I don’t want to. He cheated, I don’t trust him and I am done. We have a child and I am afraid if I don’t take him seriously, he will withhold my child and try to get sole custody. What’s good ex-etiquette?
A. Your co-parent crossed a boundary by ...Read more
Lori Borgman: Mailbox delivers sweet surprise
I grew up when people wrote letters in longhand on pretty stationery. Going to the mailbox and finding a letter was a whiff of Christmas morning.
Many Sunday nights, as a young girl, I wrote to a great aunt who was a retired schoolteacher. You mind your p’s and q’s when you write to a teacher. She wrote wonderful letters back, often with ...Read more
A fever-dream journey in 'Westward Women'
"Westward Women" by Alice Martin breathes new life into the dystopian genre with a road trip that feels like a fever dream. The hypnotic writing takes you on the road with three incredible young women who embark on a journey of a lifetime, perhaps even their last. A mysterious outbreak is occurring throughout America, as young women are ...Read more
A family saga of ambition, legacy and the two sides of success
The classic immigrant story usually ends once the family finds its footing in America. In "Both Sides of the Same Coin," author Michael Weiner, MD, asks a deeper question: What happens next?
His novel begins in familiar territory — families fleeing famine, persecution and political upheaval — but it quickly expands into something larger: a ...Read more
Praise Child's Character More Than Her Cuteness
Q: Our whole extended family has been doting on our sweet 4-year-old daughter since she was born. She loves being the center of attention and "performs" on cue if given the opportunity. But I'm starting to wonder -- how do we avoid overindulging our cute little girl?
Jim: I'd observe that it's little wonder your daughter "performs on cue." She'...Read more
Planned Parenthood asks Michigan Gov. Gretchen Whitmer for $5 million to bridge funding gap
LANSING, Mich. — Planned Parenthood of Michigan is asking Democratic Gov. Gretchen Whitmer to use her executive authority to provide a one-time $5 million allocation to its health centers amid a federal funding crunch.
Because of an influx of changes to Medicaid and Title X dollars, the abortion provider is "facing a critical funding gap that...Read more
Family guide to new movie releases
'IS GOD IS'
Rated R for strong/bloody violence and language.
What it’s about: Twin sisters set off on a revenge road trip to enact vengeance on their abusive father.
The kid attractor factor: This is a Southern noir — bleak, violent and dark. Not for kids.
Good lessons/bad lessons: It's a challenge to escape our circumstances and ...Read more



























