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An App a Day Keeps the Parents Away
Well, it's back-to-school season again, and parents across the country know what that means:
It's time to download some new apps.
Yes, you already have 10 apps; that's true. There's one for the park district, one for summer camp, one for your oldest kid's teacher to post weekly updates, one for your youngest kid's teacher to post weekly ...Read more
What Helen Keller Can Teach Us About Parenting
The movie that best illustrates today's parenting expectations is "The Miracle Worker," about Helen Keller.
When Annie Sullivan is hired as governess, she gets feral Helen to eat off her own plate -- a harrowing process. The parents are so thrilled, they are ready to let Annie go. She has done all they hoped for.
Annie says no. This is only ...Read more
Family guide to new movie releases
'MUTINY'
Rated R for strong/bloody violence, and language.
What it’s about: It's "Die Hard" on a container ship! Jason Statham seeks vengeance and justice on the high seas.
The kid attractor factor: This is a bloody action film — not much appeal for kids.
Good lessons/bad lessons: Never let Jason Statham stowaway on your human ...Read more
Ex-etiquette: Hurt over birthday gift
Q: I told my ex's new wife that I was saving up to take my daughter to a concert that I knew she wanted to go to. The tickets were very expensive, but I had been saving for six months because I wanted to surprise her. Yesterday was my daughter's birthday. She came home from her dad's house with a ticket to the concert. Evidently, her dad and his...Read more
Lori Borgman: Now paging George Washington
George Washington is literally in the “pages of history.” A book on the coffee table has money hanging out of it — not play money, real money, as in a $1 bill.
I know in an instant the book belongs to a 12-year-old granddaughter.
The girl is an avid reader. She won the “Reader Award” in her class three times last year which ...Read more
Frozen fear meets ancient intelligence in 'Icefall'
There’s a moment early in "Icefall" where an Alaska state trooper pulls open the door of a stranded Amazon delivery van and finds the driver catatonic, frozen in place with Sinatra still playing softly on the radio. It’s a small, eerie image, and it tells you everything about what this book does well: take something mundane, drop it into the...Read more
Rachel Lynn Solomon’s 'Extracurricular' delivers smart, swoony romance
Girl begins to hate job.
Girl quits job.
Girl goes to college for the experience and degree she never had.
Girl matches wits with professor.
Girl and professor… might… like… each other?
Though this is an extremely simplified summary of "Extracurricular" by Rachel Lynn Solomon, if you’re interested in forbidden romance and age-gap ...Read more
When Grandparents Play Favorites
Q: What do we say to our kids when Grandpa and Grandma play favorites? My parents are clearly partial to my daughter -- their first grandchild -- over her little brother. He obviously notices but doesn't say much. Help?!?
Jim: I'd say that your top priority is to affirm your son (the youngest child). Reassure him that you've seen the signs of ...Read more
No Masculine or Feminine Ideals Needed -- Just Human Ones
Men in the U.S. are stuck -- stuck in dissatisfaction, stuck in judgement and stuck in a culture that increasingly tells them that they aren't strong enough, attractive enough or mean enough to matter.
In a perhaps related development, American sailors appear to be trying to escape the U.S.S. Abraham Lincoln, an aircraft carrier deployed in ...Read more
Family guide to new movie releases
'THE END OF OAK STREET'
Rated PG-13 for some strong violent content, bloody images, some strong language and suggestive material.
What it’s about: A suburban town is time warped to the Paleolithic era and has to fight off dinosaurs to survive.
The kid attractor factor: This is a family action survival film, teens might be drawn to the genre...Read more
Just like in the film 'The Dink,' pickleball was the best medicine for my husband
If you aren’t among the millions of pickleball players, the fastest growing sport in America, watch “The Dink” on Apple TV to get a glimpse of what you’re missing.
Jake Johnson plays Dusty, a former tennis prodigy whose career was thwarted early when he broke his wrist during a match with the for-real tennis star Andy Roddick. Now he ...Read more
Lori Borgman: Pocket packers picked a pack of paper napkins
Our nightly dinner routine goes like this: I cook dinner and the husband sets the table. Last night we had Panera napkins, the night before we had Subway napkins. We have a drawer full of cloth napkins, but he prefers to save those until we’ve used all the extras that fast food places stuff in the bag with our order.
Sometimes he goes to the ...Read more
Ex-etiquette: Trouble communicating
Q: My co-parent and I just had a custody evaluation done. He has a very complicated mental health diagnosis that includes autism and narcissistic personality disorder. I knew he was difficult to communicate with, but now I see why. How do I co-parent with someone with this serious diagnosis?
A: Learning that your co-parent has a mental health ...Read more
Echoes of the 60s: Essential reads from the Vietnam era
When I set out to write "Wayward Girls," I was pulled into the Vietnam era. My childhood memories centered around the nightly news with Walter Cronkite. I wasn’t really focused on the texture of daily life during that seismic decade: the music, the grief, the quality of American restlessness and the way ordinary people were affected by the ...Read more
How eating crayons and glue to survive in the desert inspired a novel
Decades ago, there was a story in Time magazine (Page 98, 1965) about a family who survived getting lost in the desert by drinking water from the car radiator and eating crayons. When that issue arrived at our house, my parents must have talked about the broken-down car, the 124-degree temperatures, and the way the kids buried themselves in the ...Read more
Commentary: Schools keep calling moms, reinforcing old assumptions and roles
The start of the school year brings a familiar list of responsibilities for parents: buying school supplies, keeping track of forms, coordinating transportation and responding to a steady stream of emails from teachers and administrators.
Although many families strive to share these responsibilities, research has consistently found that mothers...Read more
Desperate for day care: How empty TK-12 classrooms can help fix California's child-care crisis
Declining enrollment in California public schools is spawning a new and growing partnership that is helping to keep child-care centers in business — vacant classrooms are being filled with toddlers and babies.
From Los Angeles to Solano counties, nonprofit day-care operators see underused facilities already centered on children — spacious ...Read more
Son Is Slow To Warm To Stepdad
Q: I recently remarried after years of being a single parent. My new husband is a wonderful man. He's kind, but firm, with my three kids and plans to adopt them. But my preschool-age son is having a difficult time warming up to his new stepfather. Help!?
Jim: Based on my own experience as a young stepson, it's easy for me to see this situation ...Read more
No Price Too High for Evading Back-to-School Shopping
In the pantheon of parental duties, shopping for school supplies stands alone. At the tripart crossroads of "least enjoyable," "most expensive" and "least negotiable," it is an intrinsic part of life in late summer, and it has been since I was a kid in the Cretaceous era.
I remember it much more fondly from that perspective -- being the ...Read more
Kid Outside? Call the Cops!
Over at Reason, you'll find my story of one Ms. Gordon (no first names -- she's been harassed enough). Ms. G lives in a leafy Philly suburb, has three sons (ages 5, 7 and 9), and darned if she doesn't sometimes...Read more
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