Is this a Biblical issue about morality?

on Jul 11, 2026

From the writings of the Rev. Billy Graham

Q: I own a bridal salon and am stunned at how many brides come in to be fitted for a maternity bridal gown. Many gals say they’ve been in a relationship, but now that they are pregnant, they feel they should marry. I understand that this happens and it is good for young people in this matter to marry, but when it becomes a trend that is sought, I’m greatly troubled. My friends say I’m too old fashioned. Is this true, or is this a Biblical issue about morality? – I.C.

A: Rebellion against marriage has grown in the world. Living together without sacred marriage is not only accepted, explained away, filmed, and glamorized; some church leaders are diluting the Scriptural guidelines for marriage in an attempt to be nonjudgmental.

But God’s truth never changes. This is not because God is some rigid tyrant but rather, He is a loving Father who knows how we best function, physically and spiritually. After all, one who manufactures a product knows more about it than anyone else. That’s why a manual comes with instructions to keep it functioning properly.

No wonder God gave us His “manual,” the Bible. God says marriage is holy and sacred and not to be entered into lightly. Many marriage ceremonies have removed God completely, and people are getting married anywhere except the church. The holiness of the wedding vows is greatly overwhelmed by more prominent factors.

For marriage to be right before God, the relationship must consist of three people: the husband, the wife, and God at the center. When couples are focused on the things of God, they’ll likely form a united bond around the Person of the Lord Jesus Christ, for He is the Bridegroom who will someday call His church out of this world to spend eternity with Him. This is the hope that all Christians set their hearts on.

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(This column is based on the words and writings of the late Rev. Billy Graham.)