ArcaMax

DEAR HARRIETTE: I'm struggling with this weird competitive energy between me and one of my classmates. On the surface, we're friendly -- we study together, share notes, even joke about motivating each other. But lately, it feels like our "friendly competition" is not so friendly anymore. If I do well on an assignment, they make little comments ...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: I was at a happy hour for my company's end-of-year holiday party, and since I recently joined the team, I was looking forward to getting to know everyone better in a relaxed setting. At first, I was enjoying myself and everything was going well. Then one of my colleagues started talking about his political views, and the way he ...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: I'm confused and honestly a little heartbroken. My sister and I grew up incredibly close -- practically joined at the hip. We talked every day and leaned on each other for everything, and I always felt like no matter what changed around us, we would stay the same. Ever since I moved away for a new job a few months ago, it feels ...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: I have a friend who is an immigrant, and he has been out of work for nearly two years. He has cobbled together enough money to scrape by, but if he doesn't find a job soon, I worry that he will lose his apartment. He has a few close friends, myself included, who have helped him whenever we can, but it's getting to be too much. I,...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: I want to take a vacation with my best friend, but I don't have the money to do so right now, and I feel incredibly embarrassed about it. We typically take a trip together every year, and it's something we both look forward to because it helps us reconnect and make memories. This year, however, everything is different: I lost my ...Read more