ArcaMax

DEAR HARRIETTE: I am very introverted, and I find it challenging to find my footing when I'm in group settings. I recently moved to a new city and have been trying to build up my social network, but I'm struggling to make genuine connections because of my introversion. When I am one-on-one with a person, I feel more comfortable, but as soon as ...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: My boyfriend and I have been dating for four years. He recently proposed to me, and his parents personally contacted me for a get-together. My boyfriend was not included, as they claimed they only wanted to get to know me. I work as a bartender, which is what they know about me. However, besides that, I have investments and ...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: I'm a recently divorced mom with three adult children. My husband was physically and emotionally abusive throughout our marriage. He originally left me and my young children when they were just toddlers, but we eventually reconciled. When the kids were in college, he sent me divorce papers, but he eventually reneged after I ...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: I have been saving up for the past few years with one goal in mind: To finally get my hands on my dream car, a classic 1969 Ford Mustang. The thought of owning this iconic vehicle has fueled my day-to-day work and drive all these years. Yet my family -- especially my parents -- have expressed concerns about my decision. They fear...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: I am a bartender, and I have a colleague I work with about four times a week. He is a nice guy, and we generally get along well, but there are some aspects of his behavior and work ethic that are becoming increasingly difficult for me to handle. While he is friendly and personable with customers, he often lacks the ...Read more